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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.
2 months ago. February 23, 2024 at 8:41 PM

Hello Friends,

Hitherto I focused on Dom and Sub (and of course Switch) but then this question popped into my mind:

 from a Quora Sean Sanders post

BDSM educator and 24/7 practitioner of the lifestyle  · 4y

Do all people fall into the category of either a submissive or a dominant?


Nope.

Some people are dominant. Some people are submissive. Some are D/s switches (meaning they switch back and forth between dominant and submissive roles).

And there are people, even within the BDSM community, that are neither dominant nor submissive.

Then I wondered are there degrees of each? (probably my guess) Something like a scale of 1-10 could be used for example. Yet, humans are not static and they are always evolving and adapting so what applies today to you may not apply in the future.

The Cage Check List is very useful: 

https://thecage.co/magazine,150.html

 


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