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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Thursday, February 29, 2024 at 10:09 AM

Hello Friends,

Making love for the first time with a new partner is special. It may begin with lust, but along the way, it becomes more. Or it may have grown out of friendship, and your emotional desire leads both of you to want to express your love for each other. It is when sex is great, and both are satisfied. 

On your way to the one-thousandth time, many things happen: emotional ties become bonds, variations in actual sexual action evolve to keep it interesting, and making love becomes a vital activity for your health and well-being.

During typical life experiences you share daily, your thoughts may always be anticipating your next lovemaking session. Beyond procreation and raising a family, this is when two humans become one entity living to please and care for each other. In the ubiquitous culture, people know this experience has faded from everyday life for many reasons: religious distortions, myths, pop emphasis on physical appearance, and ignorance. Sensing this, people seek fulfillment outside the relationship. 

When a partner violates the trust, he or she jeopardizes what may have taken years to develop. All is not lost. It can be recovered if both use love as their motive. or if a break is beyond repair (not confirmed as often as people think). A new partner can renew all this wonder. It may not take as long, but it will run just as deep when two want it to be so with all their heart. Try hard to keep it or commit to another with deep conviction and willingness to set out on a new adventure because this is a basic need most humans have to feel complete.


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