Hello Friends,
"Psycho-Cybernetics is a term coined by Dr. Maxwell Maltz, which means, “steering your mind to a productive, useful goal so you can reach the greatest port in the world, peace of mind.”
I read the book a long time ago, but what I gained never left me: Preparing for something by rehearsing it in your Mind's Eye as often as possible. It was great when applied to a sport, and it helped me for sure: hitting a fastball. tackling a gifter half-back (in high school, I was a linebacker and tackled a later-to-be pro running back in the backfield); in entertainment rehearsing for a big performance; in job-seeking interviews. As a soldier, I rehearsed my skills as a marksman, achieved expert marksmanship (my main job, however, was missile warhead specialist), and achieved soldier of the month battalion level. How about encounters with the opposite sex, dating, and romance?
Absolutely; after my wild, carefree younger days when I began to search for a mate and cared about how I looked, talked, and behaved when I was with a woman, nervousness was sometimes an obstacle. I was overthinking in a conversation. Hand me C4 or an M16, point me toward the objective, and I know what to do. Place a beautiful young woman in front of me. I could become a deer in the headlights. That passed, and I was married three times, and the last one I just celebrated the thirty-ninth year. (my wife is not capable of understanding, sadly, now). So, I am new to BDSM M/S culture.
I need close supervision from my mentor, the Dominatrix, who recruited, taught, and coached me to prod my way into this life. I have barely touched the surface, and some days, I long for simpler times of a simple man-woman relationship. She calls me Master, but it seems the girls she trains and even me obey her (some master, huh?) No, I am not her slave; she won't accept me calling her Mistress. She is training me to be in charge of the girls she trains. That is the theory, at least.
Another chapter in a life full of twists and turns; I would write a book, but my mind is too fast. I need a ghostwriter to help me tame it. Poems, songs, and artwork are short-term projects I manage well.
So what I need is the understanding of how to prepare myself as a Master using Psycho-Cybernetics or maybe a sub should teach me what to do or have her do.LOL