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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Saturday, March 9, 2024 at 7:54 PM

Hello Friends,

Wow, isn't this a great country? We have so many freedoms. In theory, we have freedom of speech, but I have discovered that most people want others to be like them, think like them, and speak like them. Even write only what they agree with. So, are we free to speak our minds and voice our opinions? Or must it pass the censorship panel first?

Well, I'll be damned! I have to conform to the nonconformist view or I am not going to be accepted.

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm> Let me see.

Back in the 60's, the people I met people yelling prejudice and bigotry but what they really wanted was their versions agreed with, not a true objective view but a tained view by the rose-colored glasses they were wearing and handing out for free. 

Bobby Said it Best:  Bob Dylan All I Really Want to Do lyrics

"I don't want to fake you out
Take or shake or forsake you out
I ain't lookin' for you to feel like me
See like me or be like me
All I really want to do
Is, baby, be friends with you"

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