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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at 4:09 PM

Hello Friends,

I do not know anyone who doesn't like roses, but I also enjoy the smell of sweet roses: spearmint, roasting coffee, fresh bread baking, honeysuckle, and hyacinths. In spices, I love ginger (it is my all-time favorite) and freshly ground black and white pepper. I also love caraway seeds, sesame seeds, poppy seeds, celery seeds, cumin, and vanilla.  Many fruits are tantalizing. While many people do not think about it, men and women smell differently. Remove the bacteria fermenting, and you may discover something that will surprise you: You love the smell of your lover (it may even be subconscious).

Most of us know our pets have fragrances (or odors), and I had two Manchester Terries that I recognized by their scent (how do you like that, my K9 buddies?); the scent on each was distinct and pleasing. Scents are also learned, like cheeses, beverages, and foods.

We tend to remove or mask our natural scents in the modern world, destroying the "chemistry" we seek. I tell my lovers not to use scented soap, do not use cologne or perfume bath simply, and I'll do the same and let's see what happens.  Of course, we all have odors from various parts of our bodies sometimes, but this is not what I am referring to. Smells of love.1

Does female arousal have a smell?
Taken together, the current findings are among the first to show that that women's sexual arousal led to the release of a distinctive scent that increases men's sexual motivation.

What does the scent of a woman do to a man?
Summary: Men evaluated the scent of sexually aroused women as more attractive and expressed an increase in their sexual motivations. Findings suggest the chemical signal of scent alone can elicit a sexual response in men.

Can guys smell when a girl is ovulating?
Human males also detect the high-fertility (ovulatory) period in women by bodily odour [4], which may act as a form of sexual stimulant for men [5, 6].

OK, men, you, too, have scents that can attract a woman.2

Androstenol is the scent produced by fresh male sweat, and is attractive to females. Androstenone is produced by male sweat after exposure to oxygen – i.e. when less fresh – and is perceived as highly unpleasant by females (except during ovulation, when their responses change from 'negative' to 'neutral').

Why does my boyfriend have a specific smell? 3
Each individual possesses a unique combination of genetic markers that contribute to their natural scent. This personalised fragrance becomes intertwined with memories and emotions, creating a distinct olfactory identity.Dec 6, 2023

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What scent is the most seductive?
Aphrodisiac scents include pumpkin, lavender, vanilla, cinnamon, peppermint, ambrette, ylang-ylang, ginger, and more. Despite some skepticism around the use of aphrodisiacs, studies show that many of these aromas do work — they can be easily incorporated into anyone's fragrance routine.Mar 1, 2023

 

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