Andron Dom

The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.

My Wife

1 month ago. March 29, 2024 at 6:08 PM

Hello Friends,

My wife unexpectedly reacted to a number of things that have revealed that despite her aphasia, she still is a complete person. If one pays close attention, one will learn that she understands more than I thought and even words—even managed to utter words and affirmation. In other words, she is still capable of understanding and giving consent.

I had to learn how to understand and communicate with her, which has made a big difference. Is she like she used to be before dementia? No, but she is much more than I thought she was. She interacts better with people, laughs, and uses my name for the first time in a while.

The key has been the break in the isolation we were in. Grandson and actual friends have made all the difference.

Drinfear(dom male){Owns PFP} - So happy to hear these words, My Friend.. I do understand she's not who she was, but finding out she's more than You THOUGHT she was has to be very emotional.. To all the cognizant time You can squeeze out of Life with Her, My Friend!

Dom

1 month ago

lambsone - So glad to hear that you have help and that you can see how your wife communicates now.

1 month ago

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