Hello Friends,
"If you don't like the weather, wait. It will change." "This too shall pass." (adage about the impermanence of Persian origin)
Suddenly, you are out in the world, either set free, graduated, or immigrated to a new land: what is the most important thing to remember? You need to learn many things and adapt, which takes time, and there are usually no shortcuts. Step by step, moment by moment, you will achieve the necessary things to adjust to your new place. Sorry, but cliches pop into my mind all the time (they are efficient forms of thought). "haste makes waste." (first recorded in 1575, was in John Ray's 1678 proverb collection, https://www.dictionary.com/browse/haste-makes-waste )
Me? I had to learn the hard way because I am naturally impatient; rushing into things often leads to disappointment and unnecessary costs. Worse still? Ruining a relationship. "Bite your tongue". (https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/bite-tongue)
