Hello Friends,
How Long Have I Been Kinky? All my life.
The conventional perspective led me to think I was odd, even perverted because I was adventurous in sexual matters for as long as I can remember. I concealed my playful desires and hid them from others. Denied they existed. Having a religious family background and again in mid-life didn't help. Odd as it was, my conservative wife got me out of my self-imposed restricted zone (at least in our home). When things changed, and conservative influences diminished, I began to see the "kink light" in me and realized it was bright. So, my mindset has changed, and I have a lot of time to make up for now. Living outwardly with my kinky side coming to the forefront. I hope it isn't too late as I continue to abandon the chains of artificial constraints that made me feel odd in the wrong way, like a deviant. The primary good kinks deliver are they offer and extend the excitement of the first sexual experiences throughout life. Adding or trying a kinky thing is akin to when we had our first sexual experience or close to it.