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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Tuesday, April 30, 2024 at 8:18 PM

Hello Friends,

My life has been far from carefree, and now I see I have also been careless. Recent thoughts about myself center on the negatives—negatives that are not life-threatening but nevertheless negative. I am not good company, and I can only claim to be a marginal friend to anyone who gets close enough to notice. I will be 77 in July, which isn't very far from 80 years old.  My family reaching the 90s has been the norm, but if there isn't a reason to live that long, why bother is my thought. Once, I had so much enthusiasm to do, see, and learn so many things, but now I don't care much about that or those things. As a scientist, technocrat, artist, writer, and independent recording artist, I seem fruitless and shallow to me now.  Estranged from my children and isolated from people with few exceptions indicates I have a terrible character, and others see it. What is worse? I don't care enough to desire change.

Yes, I have a negative taste in my mouth, and I expect it will grow until it overwhelms me, and I will choose to fade from all social interaction very, very soon. All together.

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