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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Wednesday, May 8, 2024 at 1:49 PM

Hello, my Friends,

I have reflected on all the times I fell in love or thought I had. The bottom line in my thinking? I could never predict when or with whom I would fall in love. It remains a mystery, and I am glad it is that way. Why? I like the mysterious aspect because I am confident I will fall in love again when the right woman comes into my life. It won't be who I thought it would be. It won't be when it is convenient. It will be unexpected. Perhaps someone I knew or know now, but most likely not. That is all the better for me and whomever she will be. When genuine emotion overwhelms us, there will be no obstacle or reason to remain apart, no matter the distance or the circumstances. This will happen when we can enjoy each other, learn about each other, and enter into a secure relationship, overcoming all challenges.

There will be beautiful things to share: nature, flowers, music, and simple activities. We will be able to face life's challenges together with dedication to each other and confidence.

 


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