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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Friday, May 17, 2024 at 10:01 AM

Hello Friends,

As usual, I am constantly thinking and coming up with questions that I need to find an answer to. This morning, I awakened from a series of dreams from a beach to dental work, but somewhere in the group emerged a question that stuck with me: Can lovers become allergic to each other? They were not tired of each other or lost interest in each other but developed a physical allergic reaction to each other. The quick Google answer:

"Yes, it's possible for lovers to become allergic to each other, though it's rare. This can happen during sex, or to products like lubricants, spermicides, or condoms. You can also react to one person's body fluids but not another's. For example, you might be allergic to your partner's saliva, which can continue to release the allergen hours after your body has absorbed food or medicine. Symptoms include hives, itching, rash, swelling of the lips or throat, and wheezing."

"Yes, people can develop allergic reactions to each other's semen, also known as seminal plasma hypersensitivity. These reactions are rare and are caused by proteins in semen, not the sperm. You can be allergic to one person's semen, but not another's, and you can be allergic to more than one partner's semen."

 

I was surprised at the extent of information available on this subject. It seems medication can be needed, as well as the advice of your physician.

 

Try an OTC allergy med?


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