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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Tuesday, May 28, 2024 at 9:19 AM

Hello Friends,

People have told me about "Kinkatopia," but no one knows where it is. Is it in a mountain valley like Shangrela?

It took less-than-perfect circumstances to bring me to a nice area of Pennsylvania, and it is more affordable than New Jersey, my native State. However, in my current situation, I relied on the risky business of seeking friends online, and it wasn't always a good experience.

People tell me about wonderful open spaces and a better life with natural settings, which is my preference, but though affordable, my finances won't support another move. (Three moves in the last three years have drained my finances, along with dubious choices that I have made.)

Now I am confronted by my old dreams when my wife and I sought to buy a new home in Maine, North Carolina, and Montana.

I heard that somewhere in a valley within the Rocky Mountains is a place called "Kinkatopia." Many kinksters are there and have searched in vain for this place. They say it is a small city with high mountains all around, and the peculiar aspect is that it can not be seen by aircraft or satellites. Locks and money are never needed; everyone there is honest and perfect as friends. They say clothes are optional, and all the people's needs come from the proceeds of a mine where many precious stones can be harvested. 

The Moody Blues band recorded a song about this place:

 


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