The Culture that has been here all the time

Fiery Redhead - She was never your girlfriend. She only wanted money and that pattern was established a while ago. You keep reaching out to them trying to rekindle something that was never real to begin with. That is the reality and you needed to hear it again apparently. Be blessed for your wife and the good times you shared before illness. You have what so many are still searching hard for....

Stop making yourself a target for scammers. Do not contact them. You told me yourself you reinstalled a chat app specifically to talk to the supposed domme (scammer) again. You keep going back to it hoping for a different result.

Andron - My texting didn't even last a day. It isn't that I have forgotten about the life my wife and I had; it is that my libido has power over me, so it is probably good I do not have a woman to tempt me close by. The wrong desire doesn't last. I have been doing housework, yard work, and kitchen duty to lessen my being upset. Of course, I get two hours of British TV each evening before bedtime. I have had a day here and there not feeling well, and even my doctor couldn't handle it. She triple-checked my blood pressure, and it could have been salt as I was eating microwave popcorn, so I bought an air popper. I will always be subject to sadness. It is my nature, and several of my doctors acknowledge this is my personality.

moll​(other female)​{owned slav} - Have you checked to see if your wife qualifies for a care giver paid by her insurance?

Andron - All Medicare is in place we have just too much of an estate for Medicaid. Denied ombudsmen processed Lottery funds for senior citizens mired in red tape. As it has been and as it is it shall be the same: I AM ON MY OWN.

moll​(other female)​{owned slav} - Sad that is the way you feel because there are a lot of organizations, in the US alone, that it's their mission to help people who are the sole caregivers of a family member, especially those taking care of a loved one that has Alzheimer's.

Well...I'm sure you are already aware of this.

Be well!

Andron - I belong to the Veterans Administration caregivers support group. The VA counsels me and helps me with my healthcare, but my wife is not a vet, so I provide all her care from whatever resources I can muster. No, there is no possibility for me to pursue happiness; there are just grateful days when things remain manageable. I got over the aspect that I miss having a wife who is fully engaged in our relationship and life. That is just history now.

moll​(other female)​{owned slav} - Well...that is a part of the commitment you made to her when you took your vows: 'in sickness or in health.."

Andron - So what is your point? I have been true 40 years, and I have no plan to abandon her. Still no one can say this is what a person wants in their old age, IT SUCKS.

moll​(other female)​{owned slav} - I never stated that you would abandon her. The fact that that is where your mind went is tragic.

When my grand auntie was caring for my grand uncle, when he was suffering from Alzheimer's, there were many times when she wanted to just give up and put him in a skilled nursing facility because it was increasingly harder to care for him. Even though our family rallied around them, it was still taking a toll on her to watch him decline. When she wanted to just give up she always said, "till death do us part" and kept going.

I understand what you are going through, I just don't understand why you are not utilizing all of the resources that are available to you from all the organizations that their sole purpose is to help people in your situation.

Have a better day.

Andron - My mind never even considered it, but apparently, that is what you suggest I do. Like almost all men in my position, I have learned about celebrities and famous people. You have a wrong opinion about me and can't possibly know me by making wild guesses and accusations. My forty monogamous and steadfast devotion to my wife stands on its own merits, and my integrity is intact. But I have serious doubts about the way you think, dear girl. LOL LOL LOL

moll​(other female)​{owned slav} - If that's the belief you want to hold on to then so be it. It's pretty sad and honestly I don't know what celebrities have to do with this thread. But .... whatever.

I hope you will find peace in your life.

Andron - I think you are insincere. Leave me alone, or I will block you rather than dirty my hands by following your attitude. Blocking puts a bad mark on your profile I do not want to do that unless you keep bothering me.

moll​(other female)​{owned slav} - Blocking puts a bad mark on my profile? Is this grade school? Should I be worrying about my "permanent record? " (For some reason I'm now thinking of Robin Williams screaming "THIS WILL NOT LOOK GOOD ON YOUR PERMANENT RECORD. ")

I recently got a warning that this is what you do when you don't like people giving you advice or giving you the pitty you desire.

Apparently you have been on this site long enough for people to figure you out.

Well...my Master is warning me to wrap it up...so...have a really great rest of your day.

? Bad mark on my profile.