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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Sunday, June 23, 2024 at 9:32 AM

My human compatriots,

Have you ever paused to consider what an urge is?

(Google) As a noun, urge means a desire. As a verb, it means to strongly encourage. Urge is related to the word, urgent, or 'pressing. ' An urge is a pressing want, one that is almost a compulsion, like when you're so frustrated, you have the urge to scream. If you urge someone to do something, you feel strongly about it.

Some common urgers: 

What are common urges?
‌Urges are feelings of intense desire for something specific. Urges can be for basic needs, such as wanting to eat when you're hungry. Other kinds of urges can be for things that are not essential to basic survival, like a candy bar or smoking a cigarette. ‌ Some urges can be for harmful or unhealthy behaviors.

 

Sexual urges, also known as libido or sex drive, are a person's interest in sexual activity. They can manifest in many ways, including:
Sexual fantasies
Imagination
Physical manifestations: Such as licking, sucking, and touching the lips
Lust: A strong sexual desire for another person

Physical manifestations of sexual desire in humans include licking, sucking, tongue protrusion, and puckering and touching the lips. Desire can be spontaneous or responsive, positive or negative, and can vary in intensity along a spectrum.

Feel free to explore and amplify the realm of urges.


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