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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Tuesday, July 2, 2024 at 10:29 AM

Yes, all, the stove was the center of our home well into the 1950s. My grandmother made many foods from scratch, and the aromas permeated the house. I especially think fondly of being allowed to maintain the fire once I stopped playing with it and getting burned: I liked seeing the beads of water I dropped on top dance around until I decided that if a little was fun, why not try more? Arrrg! Steam burned me and taught me a lesson.

It also seems like winters were more "winter-like" so the warmth around it was so enjoyable. My mom's home was often filled with the thirteen siblings that were raised there. In order to make space, the kitchen was moved into the basement. My grandfather had a cot under the stairs. There were basement windows that allowed me to see the snow outside. After a day out in that snow, sleighing, hanging wet gloves and socks near the stove to dry was the thing to do. 

I split kindling and placed wood and sometimes anthracite coal in the stove. Taking a nap in that warm kitchen on my grandfather's cot was so comfortable and relaxing. The slight smell of wood burning in the air added to the charm.

When the weather was too stormy or freezing, friends and cousins would hang out and play board or card games. Hot chocolate, hot tea, and popcorn were the omnipresent treats.

The last significant influence was the radio. I was lured into the mystique of the way it sounded, and I had a crystal radio under my pillow. In later years, I started my trek into radio technology with Amature Radio (Ham Radio), which led me to a career in science and technology. It was New Jersey, and points of interest were many concerning technological invention: from Thomas Edison, Marconi, Sarnoff, and RCA to Bell Labs, where solid-state devices were pioneered. Aha, but in summer? It was fishing, blueberry picking, crabbing, baseball, or Fossil hunting in the dormant clay pits.


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