Hello all,
The fast Google result to what sexual tension is:
Sexual tension is a social phenomenon that occurs when two people interact and feel sexual desire for each other, but the interaction doesn't lead to sexual activity. It can be a powerful experience that manifests in physical reactions, such as a flip in the stomach. Sexual tension can be positive or negative:
I find this a pleasant feeling, no matter what the result. There could be negatives if expectations are too high for the situation or the progression appears as a form of rejection.
With my wife ill and my tendency to miss a normal relationship, just spending time with a woman can be a good thing for me. The interaction reassures me that I can still interact as a man with all my traits and a woman with all a woman's sensibilities. Sadly I have fery few opportunities for this happening. No, it is not that I expect that every woman I meet will like me or feel sexual tension, but the few moments can awaken sleeping feelings within me.
A conversation, a walk, or sharing a few moments over a cup of tea or coffee is sufficient to promote good feelings within me.
Realize it or not, we read each other: body language, innuendo (even unintended), subtle chemistry, even brushing touch.
When you have such moments, cherish them for their intrinsic value, especially without expectations.
