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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Thursday, November 7, 2024 at 9:55 AM

You can remove the poor boy from the lower class (yours truly is one), but you can never elevate him to a higher class.

Greed is the true religion of the US, and common Religions lead the way. No matter how poor my family was, "The Church" always wanted its cut.

I don't want to incite a nasty debate; I only want to suggest I am a man without religion, and I have my reasons; I will never return to religion ever again.

 

The church we had belonged to for decades - and my wife was a diligent servant - was the first group of people we were associated with that left me to care for her by myself when she was diagnosed with dementia (the last four years have been hard). Next came family, and by that time, I no longer had friends as well. I will continue to care for my wife until my last breath or her last breath.

Bitter? Yes. I do not expect that I will have a caregiver for me when that time arrives.

 

 

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