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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Saturday, November 16, 2024 at 9:19 PM

Blog readers, there are many good axioms about life and its patterns and cycles—truisms, proverbs, metaphors, and cycles.  Yesterday I blogged Jean-Baptiste Alphonse Karr wrote “plus ça change, plus c'est la même chose” — the more things change, the more they stay the same. 

I like "this too shall pass" a Persian proverb that conveys the idea that both positive and negative moments in life are temporary. "If you don't like the weather, wait a few minutes"; this saying is often attributed to Mark Twain, highlighting how weather can change rapidly, especially in regions like New England. A famous axiom of life is "The only constant is change," often attributed to the Greek philosopher Heraclitus, signifying that the only thing always happening is transformation and flux. "Time waits for no one" originates from the old proverb "Time and tide wait for no man," which first appeared in the writings of Geoffrey Chaucer around 1395. 

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Karma is a concept that describes the relationship between actions and their consequences, and how those consequences affect a person's life. The word karma comes from Sanskrit and simply means "action."

Why am I writing all these familiar sayings? I write them to remind us not to put too much fate in something good that is going on or too much distress in bad things going on. Deal only with what you can when you can, and move on.

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