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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Tuesday, November 19, 2024 at 11:00 AM

Hey blog readers, no matter which news source you view or read, there are more controversial stories than tales with happy circumstances or happy endings. Most of you will agree that this propels higher readership or ratings, which means greater revenue for the owners.

The dire circumstances reported seldom affect more than a minority of people in a very concrete and assessable reality. The vast majority of sensationalized news is intended to evoke an emotional response in those who consume it. Can it affect how we behave? Perhaps, but its most significant effect is how we feel about everything. Our mood?

So peace versus war, famine, politics, healthcare, and the economy probably change very little on any average day, week, month, or year. What we believe or perceive throws us into a mindset and resulting mood. This can affect our behavior in several ways: seeking a better place to live may be our desire to find a safe place, which is the most disruptive.  Is there a truly "safe" place?

Life is moving at a faster pace than ever before. Think of the agrarian lifestyles of the past. Add the seemingly boundless bombardment of information and choices we face each day. A relative of mine chose to live off the grid, and all was fine until a health issue lured him to trust modern medical technology. Change and adapt. 

I believe we can educate the next generation of humans to navigate this maze we have created and live better and more tranquil lives.

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