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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Tuesday, November 19, 2024 at 6:41 PM

Well, my readers, it is time to review the Kama Sutra's wisdom again. This serves as a reminder that the "science" of making sexual love is very ancient, and this reference  was written by:

Vātsyāyana was an ancient Indian philosopher, known for authoring the Kama Sutra. He lived in India during the second or third century CE, probably in Pataliputra (modern day Patna in Bihar). The language was most probably Sanskrit, the literary language of ancient India.

offers this information:

The Kama Sutra's three sizes of male and female genitalia:
Male Kama Sutra Sizes:
1 Hare (Small)
2 Bull (Medium)
3 Horse (Large)
Female Kama Sutra Sizes:
1 Deer (Small)
2 Mare (Medium)
3 Elephant (Large)
Despite the animal-based names, this book makes a really interesting point about genital size, and it’s not just in regards to penis size, as western culture so frequently focuses on. The Kama Sutra acknowledges and accepts that there are just as many shapes and sizes of vaginas as there are of penises, both in length and girth. As a female, this is a somewhat refreshing viewpoint. It gets really old to hear people obsess over their penis size, when it’s not any more complicated than determining vaginal size (in fact, it may be simpler to ascertain).

Variation can be seen in the explicit sex sites like BDSM or even Porn sites.

Since there are many variations in Western culture, prospective mates are expected to wait for marriage to discover their partner's endowments (at least officially), and preferences are difficult to establish. However, in the realm of BDSM, that is much less a challenge for several reasons. Inhibitions are discouraged, and experimentation is encouraged, among other factors.

What counts in the opinion of most people I discuss this topic with is how each individual uses their sex organs and their mindset about the entire experience.

All the versions of the Kama Sutra that I scanned include illustrations and descriptions of positions and behaviors.

I.E. The Modern KamaSutra Kamini and Kirk Thomas Marlowe and Company ISBN-13-978-1-56924-309-1 I HAVE NO VESTED INTEREST IN THIS VERSION OR ANY OTHER VERSION.

PIXABAY.COM

 


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