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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Monday, December 2, 2024 at 9:31 AM

Well, readers, friends, and not friends,

I want you to know I have a sense of humor; some of you may not get it. Sometimes, my sense of humor is dark. My brothers and I can joke in a hospital with someone we know on their deathbed and make them laugh. Funerals were wonderfully humorous to us. If that offends you, I apologize. It is how we, and especially I, cope. 

Example: I am lying in an operating room. I open my eyes and see a beautiful anesthesiologist, and the first thing I say is, "Wow, none of the aliens looked as beautiful as you when they abducted me." The medical staff in that hospital voted me as patient of the year. LOL

My brother was a supervisor for a transit company, and someone committed suicide by stepping in front of a train. His comment? "We won't see him walking around in the zombie apocalypse or The Walking Dead (TV show)."

When our mom was on her deathbed, she joked too.

So when you read my blog, and I am having a bad day, I may write something strange to your sense of humor. Forgive me.

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