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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Wednesday, December 4, 2024 at 1:23 PM

The sun was about to set on a mild autumn evening. Above, a stream of Starlings made their way from the farms in the west to the marshes in the east for the night, the twisting with a din of squawking. I and my lover, joined a few other couples wandering on the hillside meadow in a field of amber American marram grasses. There were a few asters scattered within the blades. We sat close to each other, embraced and kissed, but returned our gaze toward the distant bay with the approaching purple sky. The gentle breezes encourage the grass to perform a Ballett. I imagined an orchestra performing an opus of Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky. When the purple terminator engulfed us, we shivered into a warm embrace. We agreed to make our way back home to the warm kitchen fire and a comforting cool-weather drink.


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