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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
4 days ago. Tuesday, April 14, 2026 at 9:48 AM

I was at my back door waiting for my dog to return from sniffing the yard when a bumblebee came and put on a show that would put a human air show to shame. I have always watched bees, especially bumble bees, because their abilities are amazing. The blog post is different but worth the time, and perhaps it will encourage you to marvel at what lives in your natural surroundings. (The only time I get stung is from a yellow jacket or cow killer if I am foolish enough to mess with them.)

"Bumble bees are remarkable pollinators that exhibit extraordinary abilities, including "buzz pollination" (sonication) to release pollen by vibrating their flight muscles at ~200 Hz. They can fly in cold weather, navigate using polarized light on cloudy days, and use, or "buzz," to heat their nests. Their high intelligence allows for complex problem-solving and social learning."

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