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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
4 days ago. Monday, April 13, 2026 at 12:55 PM

Here are some unusual things about me. I eat fresh lemons. I feel kinky in some forests. Sometimes I enjoy my woman taking the sexual initiative. I like my women "A little on the Trashy Side." I actually slept under the Atlantic City Boardwalk. I have had several periods in my artwork, songs, performing, and scientific interests. I made old things work like radios and Geiger counters. I hold the highest Amateur radio license. I drink half and half . I like Hazelnut coffee. I like flower and vegetable gardening. I love animals. I enjoy love stories. I get emotionally attached to characters in TV shows, especially those from the BBC. I lived in a small German village for three years. My favorite mountains are the Alps. My favorite State is NM. I visited Mexico when in the Army for many wild weekends. Several young women saved my life when I was a wild teenager in NYC. I don't know their names. One saved me in a townhouse that was very near Edward Hooper's. I attended parties at Will Gear's when a folky liberal. I was both a Hippie and, later, a soldier of the month (I enlisted rather than being drafted). I was married three times, the last time two days shy of forty-one years. I set aside most of my interests in life to care for my wife with Alzheimer's, aphasia, and dementia for eight years. I have a daughter from my first marriage and a son from my second marriage. I had a wild girlfriend in between marriages 2 and 3 who jumped in mosh pits and beat up men who had a Mohawk hairstyle because she said they were not real american indians. My academic career bounced between excellent and miserable because, unknown to me for a long time, I was bipolar (now totally controlled), subject to mood swings. We are all unique, aren't we?

Those are the highlights, and I have numerous anecdotes, including some memories I would like to forget. pixabay images