The word Loyalty provokes images of various extremes depending on the individual reading the word. Some may immediately focus on for better or worse, in sickness and in health.. While others may immediately focus on the aspect of remaining true to ones' self, as well as their personal aspirations and goals. Both are legit perspectives, however, how do they coincide within the lifestyle relationship? HOW can anyone besides the individual decide which is right or which may be wrong?
Personally, I do not judge individuals. It is neither My purpose nor place to do so.. I have no clue as to their path through life, so how could I possibly, in all fairness, do so? Just as THEY have no valid point of reference to judge Me in MY path, having never walked in My shoes.. That being said, this post is more of a point to ponder, a question to the community.. Which do YOU prefer? Someone that would sacrifice hopes and dreams for their life to maintain a coherent bond with one they have devoted themselves to over years of devotion? Or one that would jump ship at the first sign of an issue to maintain their own independent loyalty to self at the first sign of upcoming strife..? Better YET.. WHICH type do you perceive YOURSELF as?
I have had the pleasure of spending the last 7 years of My life with Natalie, My little, who has had multiple chances to jump ship in that time. SOME of which even -I- told her not to pass up.. Yet I wake every day to see her smiling face in bed beside Me and couldn't be more thankful for her presence. I recently was approved for the Disability I applied for in 2022 due to an accident I was involved in back in 2007.. (details available upon request for those that may be curious) Even now, though I have given multiple chances to release her from the relationship, she remains steadfast. I know several out here that I have had the privilege to get to know that share our perspective.. Are there any others?
I look forward to the community responses..
Dom