I DETEST, with a PASSION, I might add, repeating Myself.. But I have said things in the past, and will continue to do so, because PRINCIPLES need to be re-integrated, and re-enforced..
Respect and trust are commodities that are EARNED, but it is also a two way street,, THEY need earn YOUR trust and respect to earn your submission, but, on the SAME hand, YOU have to prove, and earn, THEIR trust and respect at the same time..
SOME Dom/Masters/Daddy's, or flip side, Dommes/Mistresses/Mommy's, push a subs boundaries, KNOWING the experience should be TOO intense, EXPECTING an established safe-word to be utilized,, DOING so, shows a submissive's willingness to, possibly, disappoint, instead of pushing through and risking possible injury, mental OR physical, but PROVING their trust that if things get too intense, they will END a session to keep themselves safe..
As ALWAYS, these are just MY preferences, MY practices..