Look.. I do not DEMAND, or even expect, instant Respect.. Those that do KNOW, deep down, they are NOT worthy of it.. I expect no DIS-respect, there is a MASSIVE difference.. I understand, and accept that Respect and Loyalty, the basis for ANY relationship, Lifestyle or otherwise, are two way streets.. You cannot expect to get that which you refuse to give.. I KNOW I am worthy. I also know that Trust, Respect and Loyalty will be given once they have been EARNED by the one(s) I speak with.. I do not expect or demand it before then.. But I also REFUSE to accept dis-respect because someone 'identifies' as a brat.. THAT is a completely different conversation.. (SAYING you're a 'brat' to break someone's balls isn't the same, sorry, NOT sorry to break any bubbles here..)
I have ALWAYS been the one others turn to, the one others tell 'she's not tamable' until they are LITERALLY wrapped around My finger.. Then receiving messages.. "HOW did You'.. 'THAT isn't possible..' 'she never..'
NO girl is the same.. There is NO 'cookie cutter' approach from girl to girl.. You have to understand her intentions, how she sees the world.. WHY she does what she does.. Without the context, you miss the intent.. MOST usually miss this fact, and bypass a gem in the rough, which leaves those like ME to scoop them up, polish them with punishments that TEACH, instead of humiliate, and show them a different path..
I AM an unapologetic Polyamorous DOM.. I make no excuses.. I have My Rules set in place, they are unwavering, and enforced.. I do not make excuses, nor do I accept them.. My world is black and white, right or wrong.. Anything that needs to be EXPLAINED isn't actually RIGHT, IS it? If definitions need to be defined or explained, HOW can that be considered 'right' in any definition..?
I am not faultless.. I am human, and DO make mistakes.. When I do, I apologize, adjust My outlook to include these adjustments, and continue on.. Such is life, is it not? But My Rules encompass a systemic definition of ME.. Trust. Respect. Loyalty. These are PRINCIPLES, ones My life is based on, NOT just words to be thrown out as a convenience.. Once broken, My Trust WON'T be rebuilt or restored in ANY way.. The destruction has been done, and the lack of similar intent already displayed.. HOW can I be expected to believe ANY word that has already been SHOWN by act or deed, means NOTHING to the one that broke that trust..?
Dom
02/28/26