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Drinfear's Ravings

The ravings of the lunatic known here as Drinfear.. Various antics, advice and incidents that have happened over My 30 years living the Lifestyle..
1 week ago. Sunday, May 31, 2026 at 8:24 AM

 I have had a MULTIUDE of input, as of late.. SOME constructive.. SOME, I feel, not so much.. It is not My purpose or place to judge anyonr, nor would I choose to fill that role.. Who am -I- to do so? -I- do not walk their path, I do not know their trials, their tribulations, so HOW can I decide whether their choices, or decisions, are correct or not? I only know and understand MY path.. Yes?

 

 My place, purpose and position in this life is NOT to judge anyone but ME.. I refuse to take that role, or put Myself in a position to feel "superior, or ABOVE" anyone else.. I AM a DOM, yes.. I have EARNED, over the years, the designation of "Master".. I have even earned the title of "Daddy Dom".. I never sought any of this recognition, it was given by others in My life.. 

 

 Like the nickname "killer'.. Like Trust, like respect, like Loyalty, these are NOT things to be DEMANDED, instantly expected, they are things EARNED, and this is SHOWN, day by day, by proving yourself worthy of these things.. If you CAN'T prove it, but DEMAND it anyway.. *shrug*  Yeah.. Anyone that DEMANDS it already KNOWS they cannot EARN it.. DO correct Me if I am wrong.. Expecting NOT to be disrespected is NOT demanding respect.. It is putting your foot down and drawing a line in the ground, stating "CROSS it, I have no time for the drama"..  NOT the same as saying RESPECT me because I have "dom", "master" or even "daddy" in the linked profile..  ANYONE can read "50 shades" and decide THEY want easy targets, labelling themselves this way or that.. NOT willing to admit to ANY formal training, ghosting anyone that asks questions because you come across as an ASSHAT so MUST be an "alpha type".. *cough*  right.. and the Pope is Protestant, huh?


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