Drinfear's Ravings

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Ohhh I love the play on words.
Nice.... :)

Lazuli - Two sides to every coin, why the mind games for someone who was asking for reassurance?

Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - WHY the confrontation to the answer instead of ASKING what it meant? O.o She GOT the reassurance she sought but chose to turn it into a confrontation instead of asking for clarity..

Lazuli - Yep totally her fault. Valueable lesson I’m sure.

Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - Was not anyone's fault.. I'm not assigning or accepting blame for the interaction.. I'm merely speaking facts.. No emotion.. No bragging.. No judging, either.. It happened, and can't be undone.. I posted this to share insight, nothing more, hoping other can learn from the mistakes of jumping to conclusions that have no bearing, and ask for clarity to get to an informed decision of what is happening.. NEVER take out frustrations on those not involved in the situation..

Lazuli - You did assign blame in your blog.

Lazuli - I think “do you love me,” is a very clear and direct ask.

Lazuli - But for the record dealing with littles means a lot of the time you have to do the extra work. I actually don’t take on littles for that exact reason. I don’t have the capacity to deal with all the indirect communication that comes from the big/little dynamics. You have know what they have the capacity for in a relationship and work within that framework. If you are with a little and they are asking if you love them, it is a form of asking for what they need. In return this little got a word riddle. Maybe your less a of little match and more of match something else. Did you know it would elicit a meltdown? Was that the intention? No idea but I will say anyone who profusely blames another without holding some responsibility is a bit of a dick.

Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - I agree you are correct.. Having had switches, subs, slaves, pets AND littles in the past, littles DO take extra time, work, and support.. the girl in question was a SUB, not a little..

Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - As I told Sir Don.. This is PURELY fiction.. I have NEVER had this interaction with a girl in My life.. It's a POEM, pure and simple, but, also, WAS written at a time in My life when I was a DOM/Master, NOT a Daddy..

Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - IMO as I read the blog "you were into a task" she interrupted wanting reassurance you teased her with " a little " which she didn't like. At that point the task was no longer at the forefront and there is where the point of interrupting could of been addressed, then no argument.
But feeding off of each other led to the outcome . No offense intended

Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - no offense taken, Boss.. I've been told by several members of the Community here about You, it's a pleasure to make Your acquaintance.. I would ALSO like to point out, this is ONLY a poem.. the incident in question NEVER happened in reality..

Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - It is a pleasure as well.
Poetry can be very enlightening. I wasn't being confrontational, but to those who read this was also trying to be helpful

Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - I do understand YOU were not being confrontational, and did not take it that way at all.. You pointed out Your belief, which is what I responded to, and do hope *I* did not come across as confrontational either..

Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - Oh no , I did not take it that way. All is good.

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Hehehe
I love this....

flitter'fly​(sub female) - A teachable moment here.
Nice to see an intelligent conversation and different points of view and it not turn into a brat session.
Although I have to admit when the
"snarky" = ( butterflies and cuffs ). :)
comes out to play.
I can't help but like the play.
It's the brat in me. :):):)

Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - Uh huh.. Be bratty, little one.. you'll learn, just as all the other brats have in the past.. *wink*