She's not going to pursue you.
She's not going to sit there and prove her worth to you with every day that passes.
She's not going to try and manipulate you to believe that she's better than everybody else.
Because she already knows she is.
She knows she's the best thing that will ever come into your life.
She knows she's not perfect but ....
She knows what she's been through. She has healed numerous times from the trauma that nobody apologized for, and she finally knows how valuable her life truly is.
If you get a chance to be a part of her life, you should consider it a blessing.
If she allows you to see parts of her that she hides away from the outside world ... you need to consider this a blessing as well.
If she wants you to be a part of her life, then it's for a specific reason.
She doesn't waste her time on temporary conversations anymore.
She has finally come to the conclusion that her time is precious, so she's not going to waste it on someone who doesn't realize she is too.
~ Cody Bret
THIS IS 100% ME!
For the last 5 years, I have grown so much.
I no longer make excuses for people's bad behaviour, nor do I tolerate it.
I no longer entertain people or conversations that don't serve me.
I don't beg anyone to stay in my life, and I don't chase anyone.
So, you want to go? I wish you well.
Getting divorced was probably the best thing that happened to me. It forced me to grow, mature, and work on my personal development. I let others push my boundaries because I didn't like the feeling when people were mad at me. I'm also forever the optimist, so I let people have more chances than they deserved.
I have learned to move in silence, stay in my own lane, and focus on the things I can control. The biggest thing I've learned is to not try and change people's perception of me. You want to think the worst of me or something untrue, that's on you. I no longer waste my breath trying to correct people.
The biggest thing I have learned is how to make myself happy instead of relying on others. I learned to love myself. Most of all, I learned my worth!!
More importantly, I've learned not to let others' opinions affect my value!!
