Right now I'm working in the Middle East as a military contractor. To say the least, this has put a peculiar twist on my personal relationships. I, begrudgingly, have come around to the online. I prefer having someone in person, the body language, the sarcasm, the physical and mental attraction mixing.
But here, I just don't understand people who sign up for a website, say nothing about themselves and expect results.
Now: please get that I understand the following...
1. Everyone is free to make their own choices and present themselves at their own level of comfort and discretion.
2. I'm talking about ME. I am allowed to want I want and like what I like. So fuck you high horse princess victim types.
Moving on, I come from a military life. Spent a lot of time chasing assholes around the world with fake bank accounts pseudo-back linked to more bullshit and so on. There has been little to no effort to discern shyness and concerned anonmonity from ignorant lethargy.
I'm only speaking on this because I'm getting one word message after message from "new" subs with blank profiles.
Had a friend sit me down and she asked why i stress about this. I'm not stressed, I'm addressing this openly. She didnt get it. I asked her how she felt when a guy just sends a dic k pic. No message with a blank profile. Just a cock pic. She looked at me, then her coffee and shut the hell up for 3 minutes. So satisfying.