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Explore Your Desires, Embrace Your Truth: At House of Koch, Integrity and Consent Illuminate the Path to Kink

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Core Values of House of Koch

Consent At the heart of every interaction and relationship lies the principle of consent. We believe that mutual agreement and respect for personal boundaries form the foundation of trust and safety within our community. Every experience should be consensual, ensuring that everyone feels empowered and valued.

Trust is essential in fostering a supportive and nurturing environment. We cultivate relationships built on reliability and honesty, allowing our members to explore their desires openly and confidently. Trust enables us to create a safe space where vulnerability is met with understanding and respect.

Integrity Upholding integrity is vital to our mission. We are committed to being honest and transparent in our actions and communications. This commitment fosters a culture of accountability and respect, ensuring that all members of our community can rely on one another and engage with confidence.

Inclusivity We celebrate the diverse tapestry of individuals within our community. Inclusivity means recognizing and valuing each person’s unique identity, experiences, and perspectives. By embracing our differences, we create a richer, more vibrant community that welcomes everyone and champions equality.

Merit We believe in the value of merit, where individuals are recognized and respected based on their character, skills, and contributions rather than preconceived notions or biases. This principle encourages personal growth and fosters a culture of excellence, empowering our members to strive for their best selves.

Character is the cornerstone of our community. We value individuals who demonstrate kindness, respect, and compassion in their interactions. By promoting strong character, we reinforce a supportive environment where everyone feels safe to express their authentic selves.

Honor is about commitment to our principles and to one another. We hold ourselves accountable to a code of ethics that emphasizes respect and dignity. By honoring our agreements and relationships, we build a legacy of fidelity and deep connections that enrich our lives and those around us.

Each of these core values serves as a guiding light for the House of Koch, inspiring our community to engage with one another authentically and passionately, while always upholding the principles that make our space both unique and welcoming.

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This is the house my Masters own and run. Eventually we will be opening up our own play space for like minded people like ourselves that also cherish these same Core Values. For now we an online household and Socialize there on Discord and Fetlife. Attending online munches and classes together. We will soon be hosting our own classes as well. So I am excited for that. 

I cannot stand back anymore and watch all the communities implode because they do not uphold such values in this community. So if you want to understand me a little bit more, understand my Masters and the people we surround ourselves with, it is people who believe in these things, uphold these things and live their lives to these standards. 

I have been putting this writing off for a while now. The main reason I did not desire to write about the feelings I had was do to my anger. It was never something I wanted to convey in my writing. Now that I had some time to process and calm down I can write from my heart and how I am truly feeling.

I am extremely sad, disgusted, and disappointed in my local community both online and in person. For a community that constantly demands respect, consent and safety they all have let me down completely as a whole. All of the accusations that have come out in Orlando was a hard read here on fetlife, let alone the town halls I attended something really hard to listen to. Then I took the time to deep dive myself because I do not just take word from mouth as truth. I have to know everything about it before I come to my own judgment. So that is what I did.

My conclusions are likely going to be extremely unpopular but unfortunately this is how I feel and I do not think these feelings will ever change or be easily swayed to give it another go. My Master Damon and I had gone to The Woodshed on and off for years. I am lucky to say that he never allowed me to be alone which I am grateful for. After hearing all of the stories I could have become a name on the victim's list. I can only imagine what might have happened if MC had been left alone with me as he used me as a Demo model for an Electro Play class. Though honestly I never had an issue and I thought the way he treated me was very well worthy of my respect so he earned it. I believe that now is due to Damon not leaving my side. Still it breaks my heart because of how much I treasured MC.

Damon and I had left The Woodshed when Covid hit and did not come back until it was fully open again. We instantly felt a shift in the atmosphere. It was so stifling due to the cliques that had formed. No one was actively out talking to each other anymore. If you weren't part of these groups, then you did not exist. We actually had a conversation that night with MC and he told us he had to kick out a large group of members for violating rules. Now I wonder if these people did violate rules or were they speaking out against the abuse? Were they banned from the Woodshed to be silenced? A question I likely will never know the answer to. Which for me is sad.

So when I first realized what was going on was when MC posted a notice that The Woodshed was being sold. I instantly reached out to MC and asked why, and if he was okay and what was going on. What I got was a response of lies. Nothing was said about the accusations, the drama, or anything going on. In fact what he said honestly was disgraceful and as much as I want to just openly share what he said I won't be copying his messages here. What I can say is that message he sent me prodded me to do further research. That is when I came across his writing where he admitted to violating someone's consent. I was totally disgusted. Honestly I know no one is perfect and people make mistakes; However that being said a grown adult having been a large part of the BDSM/Leather community for decades. Owning a play space that hit number 2 in the country. Someone who was named reputable, responsible not just for safety of those in the community, but for education correctly and remaining a leading pillar of this community. No, not being perfect is not an excuse here. Age here is not the reason, memory loss is not an excuse. As an adult I hold everyone to the standard you  know right from wrong and I do not need to baby you like a toddler.

Honestly that one admittance was enough for me. It takes only one to show me that you are not someone I should trust, play with, or even respect. Which was a devastating blow too me because of how much I treasured this person. Whenever I was in zoom discussions, or on discord how much I boasted about this person. The experiences I had are now a bittersweet memory. Sure I can keep the good things I experienced and still be angry over the bad things and the fallout. I am just extremely sad and disgusted over it. Even if I respect him coming out the One Time and admitting he had done these things.

Then I do further research and find out that the Staff of the Woodshed covered it all up. That to me is far more disgusting. They knew and did nothing. You allowed this behavior to continue and honestly are in my own opinion an accomplice to these people being hurt. I am not even talking about the staff that also violated consent and hurt members of this community in other ways. Then you have the audacity to come out and apologize? You have the audacity to say you chose to walk away as a staff member because nothing was going to change. As if you are some kind of hero? Absolutely not, they are scum. They said NOTHING. They remained silent and did not warn people. You might as well have been the get away driver for a bank robbery that is how culpable in all of this you all are!!!

Which truly is sad in the long run. One person that I treasured greatly was someone who first taught Damon how to bind my hands correctly so I can stand and be flogged. He taught me the signs to lookout for in my own body to know when I need to call my safe word to readjust. He taught me how to stand correctly for Damon and how to hold onto the rope between my wrists to give me extra support of my weight. Then I find out he was someone that came out to apologize for covering all this abuse up. That he and his partner chose to walk away and remain silent because after many times of trying to get MC to stop and change they realized he wasn't going to. So another great experience is now marred by disgust because they chose to remain silent and allow this kind of abusive behavior to continue. As far as I am concerned, Any staff member should be shunned completely from this community and never be permitted back in ever again. As far as I am concerned you do not have any respect, trust or any excuse worthy of allowing you near me or anyone I care about in this lifestyle. As far as I am concerned you should be sitting in a jail cell right never to MC and all the other people who have hurt these people. All the staff at The Woodshed disgust me.

Now to the people who spoke about being banned from the Woodshed for violating consent and being abusive and then flipping the script to paint the picture that you were abused first etc etc etc. Sit down and shut up. Speaking out to retaliate because you are upset you got caught and were dealt with. I have no sympathy, no compassion and honestly because you only chose to speak out against the abuse there because you were kicked out for being abusive. You are so degusting., and I am glad you have been outed as the type of person you are. Gone, bye, shunned and won't be near me or my closest dearest friends and family in this lifestyle. Anyone that speaks out just because they were caught and don't want the spotlight on them can just become the white noise they truly are. Your words do not matter. Being a victim does not give you the right to turn around and become an abuser. Absolutely Not!!! I know it comes off harsh this entire thing is hard for me because I have been a survivor of abuse my entire life. I have been sexually assaulted, and I have had my consent violated so badly in this lifestyle that I nearly died. So I do not take it lightly when people behave like this.

So to the survivors of the Orlando BDSM Community. Honestly I am glad you came out as a collective. I am so grateful that the light is finally shining down on all this disgusting behavior by the people who advocated so strongly for safety, consent and respect. I am extremely devasted you all had to endure this, and then be silenced. It breaks my fucking heart. This is something that should have never happened to begin with. This is why I do not listen to people just becuase they have been doing something for a long time. Your reputation has no merit to me. I judge you based on your integrity alone. If you do not have good moral standing and character then I avoid. I am grateful that we chose to leave The Woodshed completely back in 2023 because we felt that shift in the community. It was not one we desired to be apart of.

So the Woodshed has sold. As happy as that makes me I will never return. There will be nothing anyone can do to make me believe that the Orlando Community as a whole is safe to play with. I hate to say it but everyone involved is to blame. The silence was deafening and revealed everything to me. Abuser/victim everyone was silent. There is no excuse to remain silent and allow this behavior to continue. As much as I feel the pain this community is going through there is nothing good that can ever come from it for me or those I am close with. Which is sad and heartbreaking because being in a local community is important to me.

Do I hope the new owners will do better? Absolutely. Will I be apart of that, absolutely not. I cannot be around people who refuse to criminally press charges on people who commit sexual crimes. There is no excuse that will ever be good enough to not do that. I cannot be in a room with people who I cannot trust to speak up about injustices happening on around them. Do I know these new owners will fail every once in awhile. Of course I do, but I will not be there when it happens.

I am happy that we are moving soon and we can find a new community but we will be sure to see it for what it is. I do not believe I will ever be into a large part of community ever again. I think moving forward smaller areas will be better for our safety. Vetted people only will be around us. It is not wise nor safe anymore to partake in these types of things and this entire mess with the Orlando community has been a huge eye opener for me.

My heart is broken, I have purged myself of everyone I was friends with from the Orlando community as I have no desire anymore to be near them. I do not deem them safe anymore. Honestly I do not deem any of the community here safe anymore. Lakeland, Tampa nothing. It has been suffocating to watch the doors get closed and the world feel that much smaller but safety, consent, and respect are so important to me that I cannot stand by this anymore. I know I will get much hate on this because of my own personal opinions and view and beliefs on this entire debacle but that is alright. I have never been popular because I actually have no problem standing up and having a voice loud enough to stand for what is right.

So good luck to those trying to fix, heal, and rebuild The Orlando Community. Sadly I will not be apart of it and I hope that when we move we can find a better community in a new city and state.

I do wish you all the very best, do and be better!!!

I do not know who coined the phrase Submission Is A Gift. However I know the majority of women/men who are submissive say this. I have heard it so many times from other submissives all the time. However I do not believe that my submission could ever be a gift. In order for something to be a gift it must be selfless and it must be completely without expectation of receiving something in return.

When I hear someone tell me their submission is a gift, I have to ask them if they do not expect to receive dominance in return? Naturally they always say well, yes. I have asked many a submissive this and it is always the same response. Sometimes they add more saying they expect structure, tasks, rules, etc. So explain to me how is your submission then a gift?

Each D/s dynamic is the same when you tear it down to the basic foundations. The dominant offers his dominance. He guides, shapes, protects his submissive. The submissive then returns with their submission. They obey, serve and grow under that dominance. It is a dance of two counterparts. Without one you can still exist but when both are together it makes for more enchanting experience.

Also in regards to giving a gift you do not get to take it back. At least any decent person would not take a gift back. Especially if a relationship ended. A gift is a gift and it stays with the recipient. So are you going to sit here and tell me, that submission is a gift? Well if you gave it away you cannot have it back. It will now belong with that person for the rest of their life.

Don't get me wrong when I was newer to the lifestyle I used to use this phrase as well. I was younger, naive and lacking education into kink and D/s. I used that phrase mostly to top from the bottom when I was a completely shit submissive. My favorite thing to say, well if you are going to abuse this gift I give you, I take it back...bye felicia.

Honestly what about my abuse in return? My toxicity because they told me no, and I did not enjoy that. I was not receptive to their dominance. Honestly it had nothing to do with their dominance. It had everything to do with the fact I as a person, as a submissive needed to learn myself more and the kind of dominance I needed to have upon me. They were not the right fits for me but that is not their fault. That internally was a me issue.

For me it is now laughable hearing this phrase. Now granted if you want to see your submission as a gift then by all means do so. That is your journey, your story and your prerogative but for me I will never see it that way. For me it is just who I am. For me my submission is my entire personality, my way of life and naturally the role I step into. When I line it up with my partners then it becomes a consented contractual agreement negotiated between myself and my dominant.

Also if my submission was a gift then when I have no dominant then where is that gift at? If it is just not who I am as a person, my personality,, how I present myself, where does it go? I know this is likely so unpopular especially since it isnt just submissive people who coin this phrase. I have heard some dominants using it as well. How they respect the gift. Sorry but I am not a box with a bow on top. I cannot be given to you and then regifted to someone else when you are done with it.

Now respecting the submissive as a person. Absolutely that is mandatory. Gaining consent to take control of them and take that submission that is offered to you? ABSOLUTELY MANDATORY!!! However it works both ways. Just as I offer my submission to my dominants, I too must gain consent to accept their dominance. I must respect them as the people they are outside of their dominance. Just as they must understand I am only human and will make mistakes, I too must remind myself that they are as well.

*Gifts cannot be taken back!
*Consent is mandatory!
*Respect is mandatory!
*Submission is who I am, not something I give away.
*I am not a prostitute, so my submission I do not charge money for.

Also in a court of law....a Gift is NOT refundable!!!

Yesterday was so fucking horrible. I am still angry over it but at least I can feel better and I do not feel numb, lost, or internally not okay anymore. I have my Masters to thank for that. I have never appreciated them as much as I do right now.

My Master Damon is a fixer type of person. He sees me in pain, stress, sadness, etc. He just wants to hover until he has fixed the situation for me so i can go back to being his happy little duchess. Sadly things do not work that way and honestly when I am in a situation like I was in yesterday that is when I just need him to give me space and allow me to feel and exist.

Damon did that for me yesterday. He knew I needed him to just back off a bit and give me that space. He went and dealt with this situation by playing a video game, writing, and just being in his office. He allowed me to listen to my screamo music, internally rage and just try to work on what I was going through the way I needed to work on it. He respected me enough to do that for me and I love him so much more for it.

My Master Calvin understood that from him what I needed was his beast inside of him. I needed to feel pain. I needed to feel completely helpless. I needed to endure the situation at hand for what it was. Completely out of my control. He understood that I truly needed that. He wrestled me. He allowed me to prod at him. He did not give in. He gave me the pain I needed in that moment and then held me at the end as my body finally allowed me to relax and cry my eyes out.

It was so hard because I never know in these moments what I need to get through the situation. I never know in those moments how to communicate these needs. Sometimes the words do not form, cannot come out and internally I am screaming for help. The fact both of my Masters knew. They understood me in this moment a lot more than I could have ever asked them for.

People wonder why I am so loyal to them. Why I love them so much. Why I refuse to leave them for a new relationship, a new dynamic. They do not understand that these two men in my life know me. They know me better than I know myself sometimes. They accept me for who I am as a person. They are there for me and have been there for me through some of the hardest things in my life.

I am loyal because they make me a better person. Not only that they make me WANT to be a better person. They guide me in my submission. They tell me NO and hold firm in it. They accept my kinks and fetishes and allow me the chance to please and serve them. We are sympatico. Especially when they can look at me and just know what I need in the moments I cannot voice it.

My Masters are amazing. They continue everyday to give me a new reason to fall in love with them all over again. To find new appreciation for who they are as people and as my dominants. It is not a joke when I say they truly own me, heart, body, mind, and soul.

To both of my Masters, Damon-Koch and Calvin-Koch I love and appreciate you both so much. Thank you so much for being in my life. Hi Forever!!!

Religious trauma is a thing. Being told that anything to do with your body whether it is sex with your spouse or just plain up masturbation, is a sin. It is told to so many people all over the world and usually beaten into you as a child.

I recall all the stories I was told about how if my parents even talked about sex or asked a question they would have to go pickk out a switch from the tree and get beaten with it. How asking a question deserves that kind of response will always baffle me.

So it was amazing to have my mom come and talk to my Master Damon and I about sex toys and stuff. Apparently she had gone and purchased a ton of things and they had just arrived in the mail. As she opened the packages she realized by looking at them in person they were by far not for her and not what she thought she was buying. So naturally she gave them to us which I appreciate.

This lead to us discussing different types of sex toys. Dildos, vibrations, massagers, etc. The kind of material they are made from. How to care for them. What type of lube to use with different materials. Etc. The conversation was naturally an hour or two long. We asked many questions and she just could not answer because of lack of experience. Still you are never to old to start.

So today we took her to Orlando to one of our favorite adult stores. There she got to browse, touch display toys. We showed her and let her feel the different materials. Damon,, Calvin and I explained how each material was from experience and how hard some of them are to clean. We were at the place a good few hours. In fact I got a new outfit, a bondage bear and two new impact toys to play with. So to me it was successful.

Afterwards we all went out for pizza at a place my master Calvin had been dying to try. It was pretty good. A little hole in the wall but it was popular. Their pizza was pretty good. Even if I disagree that it wasn't authentic New York pizza. We all talked and just enjoyed ourselves. My mother expressed how she had a fantastic time and after she was done feeling extremely anxious and embarrassed stated she had a positive experience and she appreciated the people working there being so nice and helpful.

Overall I think today was a very fun day. I really enjoyed it. I also realized I really needed to escape the house and get out into society for a little while. I have been cooped up way to long. Besides seeing her reaction to some of the sizes of dildos and butt plugs was absolutely hilarious. I really needed a good laugh and I had to explain to her that some people are just that talented!

I am so angry, disgusted, embarrassed, disappointed, frustrated, sad, and ashamed of my local kink community and everything that is going on.

Heartbroken indeed to find out what happened. Extremely upset it took this long.

Happy that when I felt a change so many years ago I stayed away.

it shows me it is not safe in most areas still.

Thankful I am moving!!!

I do not recall what group it was posted in but a woman had asked in a submissive forum if as a submissive do you feel more submissive when your dominant does something, says something, touches you etc. They asked does that make you feel more submissive, needy, aroused, etc.

Honestly I enjoyed the entire question. That was just my summary of it but it went into more detail and it made me smile. Mostly because everything she was saying in her writing I was simply nodding and smiling and agreeing in my mind to it all.

So then I scrolled down to the comments. No point in me writing something if someone had already said it. However I was astonished. Every comment said No. The majority of women said they are submissive by nature so nothing makes them feel more than what they already are. Now I understand everyone is different, but still...What?

His footsteps on the wood floor.
The clearing of his throat.
The way he looks at me.
The scent of his cologne.
The way he grabs my hips and pulls me into him.
The way he grips my wrists.
The way he bites me.
His voice when he calls me a good girl.
ALL THE REST!!!

I do NOT understand how this does not make a submissive feel anything at all. How can it not? The very thought of the small list of things they do to me causes my heart to race with mere thoughts upon the topic. So I do not understand and cannot wrap my mind around a submissive saying nothing makes them feel anything becuase they are naturally a submissive. Where is the fire at in your belly? I am a naturally born submissive just as all the rest are. It is not a role I step into like I am acting out a scene.

Sometimes I feel more submissive. Sometimes I feel more eager to serve. Sometimes I am enthusiastic to please them. Sometimes I needy bitch in heat. Sometimes I am so overrun with my desire and slave needs that I am writhing and begging to be used. My masters can look at me a certain way and all I think about is how eager I need to service their pleasure and climb them like a damn mountain.

The fire in my slave belly burns so damn brightly and yes they keep relighting it when they do little things that to them are nothing but to me is everything. I encourage it as well. I inform them how much I love it because I want more of it. I need more of it. I have to have it. Just my master standing in front of me and being able to look up at him and see how broad his shoulders are.....makes me want to kneel right now,

I am not trying to bash on anyone that is not what this writing is about. I know everyone has their own experiences, their own journey, their own stories etc. I am just baffled. Are there really people out here serving a dominant and not feeling alive and free from it? Is being a submissive not liberating for you? For me I understand I can do all the adulting. I can do all the things needed to survive if I had to but damn it I love not having to. I love the control stripped from me and taken care of for me.

I get butterflies when they tell me No.
I feel my belly twist in yearning when they enforce my rules, structure, routines.
FUCK, make me crawl with that lustful look in your eyes.
Tear my panties off with your teeth as you call me your good girl.
Let me be your object, I only ache to serve you.

As much as I know that some submissive are out there serving without feeling these things. I do not think I could ever enter and agree to a dynamic where I do not feel these things. For me it would be robotic servitude and damn it that is not what I want.

Burn me with your dominance!!!

I love moments in a day where I can fall in love with my masters all over again. Usually it is just something small they do, or say, and sometimes it can just be the way the light hits their faces or a look in their eyes that takes my breath away. However tonight it was something else entirely.

My mother is getting up there in age. Not entirely old but with her health detreating She has to have two major surgeries coming up soon. One is so big that there is a good chance she might not survive. I am not sure I am even prepared for that. Still it is her decision to go through with it and thus I have to accept it.

That being said my master Calvin made me fall in love with him all over again. Due to complications my mother is having she tends to not get a lot of nutrients in her diet becuase she has issues eating. So she often feels sick, dizzy, etc. Tonight she was walking out of her bedroom and she began to get dizzy and then she fainted.

My master Calvin wasted no time when he saw this. He rushed over to her threw his body between hers and the floor. He hurt his hip in order to make sure my mother did not get injured. He caught her despite being injured from it. We have hard wood floors so I know it must have hurt to have her entire body weight land on him on the wood floor.

He held her there until she came around. He and my master Damon assessed my mother. They did all the things necessary to see if an ambulance needed to be called. They got her up slowly, checked her vitals, and once she was fully aware of what happened she was better.

Sometimes her sodium drops and so we got her situated with things needed to correct that. They helped her back to bed where she was told to remain there and if she needed assistance to just call us on the phone. So her cell phone will be with her at all times.

I have never seen Calvin react that way with my mother before. I never thought he would. Not that I ever thought him to be a bad person. It is just my mother is not the kindest of people. Still she isn't the most vile of people either. She has her issues and even though it isn't an excuse, I definitely do not want to see her hurt.

I was in a different room when this happened. No one told me what happened until it had passed. Finding out my master Calvin did this just made me fall in love with him all over again. The fact that when I thanked him for rushing there and doing that and he said, "Wouldn't Even Be A Question." just brings tears to my eyes.

My mother has never been extremely nice to him. She does not accept our relationship and is constantly bad mouthing men that I wish sometimes I could just gag her. She frustrates him so much sometimes but he never once allowed that to be a thought in his mind when he caught her. Easily he could have just let her hit the floor and the help her after.

Wouldn't Even Be A Question!

Means that no matter what he has to endure to be with me, it would never be a question from me to ask it of him. That he would never make me ask for something like this. It means that when it comes down to the nitty gritty, despite issues in our dynamic, There Wouldn't Even Be A Question if he was ever going to be unreliable. That I can trust him. That he will protect me and my family without me having to ask and beg him to.

I am safe
I am loved
I am wanted

So I love the moments out of the blue that remind me as to why I fell in love with these men in the first place. It silences all that background noise of stupid shit.

Despite our issues and everyday stresses. I have chosen two amazing men to lead me. I am proud to be their slave. I am honored that I get to live the rest of my life with them, and I am so lucky that I get to fall in love with them all over again each and every day!!!

Many people out there often misunderstand me. I have been a villain in some people's stories. I have been a saint in others. The funny thing is I am both I suppose. I am a reflection, a shiny mirror of your own behavior shining back at you.

I have always been this way. I easily get along with anyone no matter what they believe in, where they come from or their own political standings. I can fit in anywhere and just have pleasant conversation and enjoy my time meeting new people.

I always approach someone for the first time with kindness. I do not know them so I give them the benefit of the doubt to be a good person. It has taken me a long time to learn people are human and make mistakes. Since I was of the mindset if you're an adult you know right from wrong, but my master Damon is the one who has convinced me to give people second chances.

I TRY!!!

Still there are reasons why I am a villain in peoples stories. Those reasons are I will treat you precisely the way you treat me. If you are going to pop off and cross a boundary that I have put into place. I am going to remind you once politely and then clap back after that. Most often I try to redirect you.

Which is what I did yesterday to someone and now I was called RUDE!!!!

The other reasons I become a villain in someone else's story is just because they are being a total asshole and well you get exactly the behavior right back at you becuase submissive or not I am not a door mat and I will be treated respectfully.

PERIOD!!!

The majority of people I encounter I have noticed do not have manners and have never been raised to set boundaries or follow boundaries. In fact I only recently learned of them about four years ago when i started placing boundaries in my life. It was hard at first to do so but once I got the hang of doing so it was much easier.

Enforcing boundaries were hard as well. Sometimes I wonder if I am being to harsh on someone when they violate a boundary but then I have to remind myself if I am lenient and do not keep my word on what will happen when you cross a boundary then I have shown that person they can walk all over me, and yeah....NO....again I am not your doormat and I will not be treated like one.

I am a Gemini, born in May and I have always been a mirror. I give you what you put out there. If you are going to put out into the world that you are a jerk well I am going to remind you that you are one. If you continue to break a boundary I will keep my word and excommunicate you from my life.

I am rude because I told you when you interact with me, it was strictly platonic conversation only. You chose to remind me of how horny you are. I thus redirected you like a dumb fucking toddler to go tell the person you claim you are in love with. If that makes me rude so fucking be it. It will be the inspiration of my new art piece today.

You also don't get to be a dick to me after you have shared some information and I chose to throw that back into your face. I may be rude sometimes when I tell you to stay in your fucking lane, but at least I am not cheating on my wife simply because I cannot tell her I am unhappy and either divorce her or open the marriage.

I am also not Willy Wonka, I am not going to sugar coat anything for you. Cheating on your spouse/partner is NOT a fucking Kink...its VIOLATION OF CONSENT!!!

I might be rude becuase I didn't care about your arousal, but at least I am not lacking integrity and self respect.

So how about grow the fuck up and stop violating peoples boundaries, that way when you meet someone like me, who reflects your behavior, you wont sit there and cry over being treated the way you treat others.

You were Disrespectful, not the other way around!!!

My Inbox Only:

2024 is almost over, so RESPECTFULLY confess something you've wanted to tell me. It will be between us.

~Put this as your status and see who surprises you.~ Hoping I don't regret doing this.

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