There is never enough things I think expressed or written online or shown in videos on youtube and social platforms that bring awareness to people about Dominant aftercare and Dom drop. Which to me a shame because it is a topic that is important to me as a submissive/slave. The care, happiness, and well being of my Masters are the most important thing to me in this world.
I got to experience one of my Masters going through Dom drop the other day. It was hard seeing him go through it because I felt so helpless. I had NO idea what I could do help him. I understand that alot of Doms, at least ones I have talked with and grown with over time always tell me that they cannot be vulnerable because they have to be big and strong.
Bollocks!!!
As much as I hate hearing that because I desire to be there for my Masters to lean on me when they truly need it just as they are there for me. It made me so happy when my Master finally reached out and told me he was struggling, dealing with Dom drop. He did not know what would help him pull out of it.
I did not even need to be asked. I was already up off my computer. I was grabbing my kneeling cushion, even as I heard it might help if you came in here. I was already rounding the corner and there before him I arrived and he smiled. He allowed me there before him. Moving to me knees and knelt there, my fingers caressing up his legs.
I massaged his legs, resting my head there against his thighs, nuzzling while he looked down at me, rubbing his hands through my hair. Occasionally I lifted my head and peered up at him. Being blind I can barely see his face but we connected. I know our eyes met. I could feel it so intensely. He allowed me to kneel there as long as I desired to be there. Despite hurting, I chose to push through the pain for him.
When he was feeling such a state of Dom Drop, the only answer I could give him was to come humbly before him. Kneel there, comfort him from my knees. I would have done anything for him in those moments. His opening up and allowing me to see such a vulnerable moment only made me ache to serve and please him that must stronger.
We often in our own submissive hearts when we are loved and cherished and cared for, forget that our Dominants/Masters/Daddys are human. They have needs outside of the tasks, chores, and servitude they demand of us. Strong, Masculine, Tender, Loving I want it all. I crave and need it. It burns in my belly with the desire to be put before his feet.
I crave to serve his needs and desires and yes in these most intimate moments I yearn and ache to be the one that can lift him back up. That no matter how far he drops, I as his slave will be there. To do whatever he desired, or needed of me.
How often do I drop, that I am given cuddles, kisses, caresses, snackies, movies, stuffies, blankets, paci's, my favorite dinner, a movie, silly dancing, the whip, and even put to the bed for their pleasure and oh so sweetly my own just the same.
My Masters pull me so abruptly out of sub drop by doing all of these things. Sometimes the symptoms go unnoticed and we never see it. We are blissfully happy to have guidance, love, and protection that we truly forget to see them.
I wish this was something that was much more talked about. Normalized. I wish all Masters could feel so confident that when they need to voice these moments they feel safe and unjudged. I am going to make it a point to ensure that I never miss a sign again. I am going to be my Masters' sanctuary. A safe place for them just as they are for me.
Strive for that. Strive for the perfection you can have in your service. Strive for the pleasing nature of your heart to please their desires and needs. Strive to be their sanctuary, their peace. Let your Masters know that it is safe and perfectly ached for their vulnerability as much as their strength.
It is not weakness. It takes strength, courage, bravery to reveal these moments. Moments that I need from my Masters. Moments like me simply kneeling at his feet, his fingers combing my hair, his kisses upon my lips, and me there burning with need to please him.
Take a moment to hug your Dominant today. Really hug them, tightly, close, and just whisper how much you cherish them. How grateful you are that they chose you. How safe, loved, and protected they make you feel.
Look into their eyes *if you are permitted of course* and truly see through to their soul. You will feel that zing surge through you. It is intense and shakes me down to my core when this happens.