So I am constantly praising people from my past that have helped me along my journey. My mentor Sir Seven, my masters, friends, etc. So many people that I am so grateful for along this long road I have been on for so long.
However today I want to thank someone new. She is someone I met randomly in a group on fetlife. We were both seeking friends, but I answered a question she had asked in the group, and we just hit it off. We realized we had so much in common.
She has been someone I have been getting close to and confiding in. As my masters and I began to redefine our TPE she has been a blessing. SHe has given me some sound advice as her daddy has as well. One in particular is I have to just be silent. Do not remind my masters to do anything unless they command me to remind them.
Damn near impossible for me to do!
However she had a point. If I constantly remind them to do the things that are their responsibility then how are they going to grow as people and dominants? Just as I fail sometimes and must learn and grow from that, they too have to be given the opportunity to succeed or fail as well. It made me stop and think about it and she was right.
As hard as it is for me to do I have been doing it. This does not stop me from getting angry for certain things. However it has helped me to realize that with my reminding them when they never commanded me to, I was not giving up my control. In a way I was taking the control to ensure things that mattered to me were done on time. So yes I do get angry still but I am a work in progress.
So here is to Sophie, Thank you so much for coming into my life. You have become such a great friend to me and your wisdom and advice has given me new perspective plus have given me some hope that I can grow and adapt to my new dynamic TPE and be successful in it.
Sophie, you are amazing and I love and cherish you so much!!!