Something that has plagued my mind for years is the very polarizing opinions on whether dressing skimpy(showing cleavage, leg, or even posting nudes on sites like Fetlife) equate to either the strong belief that this person is either highly confident, or highly insecure. On one hand, I personally believe you would have to have some pretty high confidence to be putting that out there. But I can also see the argument from those who say they are just seeking validation.
And then in the same vein, people will say somebody insecure will wear baggy clothing to hide themselves, while others say a person with high self esteem doesn't feel the need to show off and will dress modestly due to that.
So I guess I just want to hear other's thoughts on this. Which is it, do you think? Is it both depending on the person, and if so, how would one even decifer that? And if you can't, and it is something only the person dressing/acting this way can truly know, is there room for anyone of us to judge one way or the other?