The Goddess Gaze

Bluelover​(sub male) - From a sub POV the most important part is the energy she conveys, it is all about that.

Steellover​(sub male) - Sorry for the late response, but my ideal dominant would be: Assertive, confident, strong (both physically and mentally) and independent. Has raw sex appeal, but not in a "daddy's girl" kind of way, but in a manner which says "You know you want what you can't have." But more than anything, someone who shares the same values, and who would still be a fun and fulfilling companion and partner. (and of course, who shares the same kinks.) And by the way, happy Thanksgiving to you as well!

naughtylittleboy​(sub male) - There are quite a few traits that I am magnetically attracted to in a Domme and actively seek out.

1st, intelligence and mindfulness. I need to be able to trust my future Domme because I intend to give myself fully to her in every way possible. I need to know she can safely decide what is best for me and will always have both of our best interests in mind.

2nd, confidence and self assuredness. I want to be able to submit to a Domme that knows what she wants and doesn't care what other people think (to a reasonable degree - we all need to care a little). I would like to be able to live our lifestyle 24/7 and out in public as much as can reasonable be expected, so I'd want her to be confident enough around her friends and family with her lifestyle choices. This in turn would help grow my own confidence in my submission knowing she is confident in how she wants me to look, behave, and act.

3rd, consistency. I tend to be a very type B free spirit and push boundaries and live very flexibly... Maybe too flexibly lol. I work well with someone who is consistent and good at setting unmistakable boundaries. I also do what I say I'll do, and I appreciate someone that is also consistent on following through with everything they say they will.

4th, a loving heart. While my inner being definitely craves to experience my Domme in all her frightening power and fury... I also want to build an actual loving relationship. Sex games don't do much for me unless it's real... Not a scene, but a real life, real relationship. I want a wife or girlfriend that LOVES me and CARES for me... Which is why she might be so strict with me. Which is why she would know the deepest parts of my psyche and know what I need... Even if I don't. I want to be able to return that love in my submission 100%.

5th, a creative mind. Let's keep growing, exploring, and experiencing different mind-fucks! A creative and curious mind will keep us from becoming complacent or stagnant. A Domme that is constantly learning, exploring, and looking for ways to grow is incredibly attractive.