What a question!
A good one for everyone to just have a think about.
I thought I knew who I was, who I wanted to be, needed to be.
But now I am on a profound journey of self-discovery, particularly within the realm of BDSM and my understanding of submission.
It’s completely natural to evolve in my thoughts and feelings as I gain more knowledge and experience.
The idea that there isn't a "one size fits all" approach in BDSM is crucial I’ve found, each person's experience is unique, and what works for one may not work for another.
I’m taking the time to explore what submission means to me personally, rather than relying solely on preconceived notions or external definitions which is what I have done, leading up to putting myself ‘out there’.
The deeper understanding will serve me well as I navigate my desires and boundaries.
As i continue to learn and grow, i will be exploring different aspects of my identity and desires without feeling pressured to adhere to specific labels or dynamics. I want to embrace the fluidity of my journey.
it may lead me to insights about myself and relationships that I hadn’t anticipated.
I feel the exploration itself can be just as valuable as any destination i might think im aiming for.