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The Thoughts of a Overthinker.

So,
I thought I would start a blog and document my journey of becoming who I am meant to be.

Can I just start with….. what is it with so many not even bothering to read a profile.
When I first joined, all I did was go around and look and read and learn.
It was intense to see I wasn’t alone.
BUT
The amount of messages from “little men” is unbelievable, and the amount of people asking for feet pics!!!!!
Just please, please take a minute to read the profile if you want to message.

I think I came here with rose tinted glasses. It took me a long time to finally put myself out there, after researching and learning about who I am.
I expected to just find my Dom/Master and bam I would be fulfilled. Very naive I know.
But isn’t life a learning journey.
And I’m learning more about myself and my needs than i ever thought possible.
So while the start has not been great, it was still worth putting myself here, as I’m learning so much more on who I need to be…..
Who I crave to be.
2 weeks ago. March 26, 2025 at 1:55 AM

One of the key areas I’m focusing on right now is my self-confidence, which I must admit is quite low. Despite this, I take pride in owning who I am and embracing my individuality. I’ve come to realize that I don’t fit into the conventional “social norm,” and I doubt that I ever will.

It's important to acknowledge that we all have our own insecurities and hang-ups. In my case, I sometimes find that browsing TC can exacerbate those feelings, rather than alleviate them. It’s absolutely ridiculous that society often imposes unrealistic standards on us, making so many of us feel “not up to standard” in various aspects of our lives.

Even when someone offers a compliment, like telling me I look good, I can’t help but focus on my perceived flaws—the lumps, bumps, and imperfections that stand out to me. It’s a constant internal struggle, where my self-criticism often overshadows others’ positive perceptions.

I recognize that this is something I need to work on—cultivating a more positive self-image and learning to appreciate myself more fully. It's a journey, but I'm committed to embracing who I am, imperfections and all, and finding ways to boost my self-esteem along the way.


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