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The Thoughts of a Overthinker.

So,
I thought I would start a blog and document my journey of becoming who I am meant to be.

Can I just start with….. what is it with so many not even bothering to read a profile.
When I first joined, all I did was go around and look and read and learn.
It was intense to see I wasn’t alone.
BUT
The amount of messages from “little men” is unbelievable, and the amount of people asking for feet pics!!!!!
Just please, please take a minute to read the profile if you want to message.

I think I came here with rose tinted glasses. It took me a long time to finally put myself out there, after researching and learning about who I am.
I expected to just find my Dom/Master and bam I would be fulfilled. Very naive I know.
But isn’t life a learning journey.
And I’m learning more about myself and my needs than i ever thought possible.
So while the start has not been great, it was still worth putting myself here, as I’m learning so much more on who I need to be…..
Who I crave to be.
2 weeks ago. March 26, 2025 at 2:08 AM

To be held. It's a simple phrase that carries profound weight. The longing to feel the warmth and safety of another's embrace is a deep-rooted human desire, one that transcends the boundaries of relationships and circumstances. Just the act of being held can evoke a whirlwind of emotions—comfort, love, vulnerability, and a sense of belonging.

In moments of solitude, I find that this is one of the things I miss the most, it's a deep ache, a yearning that lingers in the quiet corners of my heart. The absence of that physical connection can sometimes feel overwhelming, as if a piece of my spirit is adrift, searching for solace in the arms of another.

It doesn't matter who, what, where or when, what truly matters is the feeling of being enveloped in warmth and acceptance. The act of being held has an uncanny ability to ground me, to settle my racing thoughts, and to center my chaotic emotions. It serves as a reminder that I am not alone, that there is someone out there who understands and cares, even in my most vulnerable moments.

In a world that often feels chaotic and unpredictable, the simple act of being held can become a sanctuary, a safe space where my worries dissipate, and I can simply be myself. It’s a reminder of our shared humanity, a connection that reinforces our need for love and support. In those cherished moments of embrace, I find a sense of peace, a reaffirmation that i am worthy of affection and connection.


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