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The Thoughts of a Overthinker.

So,
I thought I would start a blog and document my journey of becoming who I am meant to be.

Can I just start with….. what is it with so many not even bothering to read a profile.
When I first joined, all I did was go around and look and read and learn.
It was intense to see I wasn’t alone.
BUT
The amount of messages from “little men” is unbelievable, and the amount of people asking for feet pics!!!!!
Just please, please take a minute to read the profile if you want to message.

I think I came here with rose tinted glasses. It took me a long time to finally put myself out there, after researching and learning about who I am.
I expected to just find my Dom/Master and bam I would be fulfilled. Very naive I know.
But isn’t life a learning journey.
And I’m learning more about myself and my needs than i ever thought possible.
So while the start has not been great, it was still worth putting myself here, as I’m learning so much more on who I need to be…..
Who I crave to be.
1 week ago. April 1, 2025 at 7:31 PM

I stand out in a crowd, not just because of my striking 5’8” frame adorned with luscious curves and fiery red hair, but because of the vibrant personality that radiates from within.
My piercing blue eyes reflect a passionate spirit and an adventurous heart, embodying a woman on a quest to savor every moment life offers.

A few years ago, I experienced a transformative moment that jolted me into reevaluating my life. This pivotal experience compelled me to reflect on what truly brings me joy and fulfillment.

In rediscovering myself, I’ve come to realize my worth and the depths of my desires. 

I crave sand need something that allows me to embrace my submissive nature fully. I aspire to be a devoted sub/slave, but I seek a connection that nurtures my needs, both in and out of an intimate context.
My job, while rewarding, often brings stress and demands constant decision-making. In my personal life, I want to escape that pressure—to serve, to surrender, and to have someone take the reins, allowing me to relax and simply be. I am aware that I sometimes struggle to prioritize my own needs, a journey I’m actively working on, but the vision of being supported and understood is essential to me.

I want to clarify that I am not necessarily seeking a “lifestyle” in the conventional sense. Instead, I believe that when the right connection is found, it will flow naturally. Labels are insignificant compared to the profound bond that can exist when two people understand one another's desires and needs.

I recognize that it this is an intrinsic part of who I am. I am ready to explore this realm with someone who is knowledgeable, someone who can guide me, empower me, and hold the leash I was always meant to wear. Passion and intensity are what I crave. I need a partner who not only embraces my submissive side but also respects and attends to my emotional and physical needs. In this journey, I seek balance,a harmonious exchange of power that fulfills us both.

In essence, I am a woman ready to step into her truth, embracing the fullness of who I am and what I desire. Life is too short to hold back, and it is time for me to fully embrace the submissive I was born to be. I seek a connection that allows us to explore the depths of our desires together, crafting a shared experience that honors both of our needs and pleasures.


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