๐ค The Cage Rattles Louder When You're Having Fun ๐ค
By Animal & Bullet โ House of Wreckageโข Originals
๐พ Bullet says:
Hold upโwhy is everyone acting like this is LinkedIn for kink?ย This ain't a resume review. Itโs supposed to be the wild west of connection, dirty minds, deep hearts, and toe-curling adventures.
๐บ Animal says:
You said it, baby girl. I just read a blog this morning By a very wise woman named Lulu that lit a fuse under my ass. It was smart. It was vulnerable. It talked about boundaries, about poachers, about Littles and dynamics. Solid. But I got to thinking... why the hell are so many people here not playing the game?
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Seriously. Whyโd you sign up for The Cage, or any BDSM site for that matter?
To watch?
To lurk?
To build a fantasy you never act on?
Or was it to actually connect?
To have some fun? Maybe even get your socks knocked off on a random Tuesday?
This ain't a rรฉsumรฉ review. This place is supposed to be the Wild West of connectionโdirty minds, deep hearts, and toe-curling adventures.
๐บ Animal says:
You said it, baby girl. I just read a blog this morning by a very wise woman named Luluโand it lit a fuse under my ass.
It was smart. Vulnerable. Talked about boundaries, poachers, Littles, and dynamics. Solid. But it got me thinking...
Why the hell are so many people here not even playing the game?
Seriously. Whyโd you sign up for The Cage, or any BDSM site for that matter?
To watch?
To lurk?
To build a fantasy you never act on?
Or was it to actually connect?
To have some fun? Maybe even get your socks knocked off on a random Tuesday?
Iโm not talking about slapping a 24/7 collar on someone after one message. Iโm talking about the spark.
That raunchy, nasty, fun-as-hell spark.
Like the one I had the other night with a little sub from halfway across the world.
I donโt even know if sheโll be back. But you know what?
That night was filthy, intense, and worth every damn second.
We went toe to toe, line for line. No bullshit. No waiting for some form-letter "protocol."
It was fun.
And guess what?
Thatโs enough.
๐ก The Dirty Secret (Sorry, Gents...)
Hereโs something no one wants to say out loud:
Women hold the power. Always have.
Maybe some of them just donโt know itโor were taught not to.
A wise woman reminded me of that, and it hit home.
For most of my life, I had to hustleโgo out, make the first move, earn the right to play.
But back in my biker days?
It wasnโt like that.
The women I knew would look me dead in the eye and say:
"Hey, Animal. Iโm coming over. Letโs fuck."
No filters. No games. Just heat.
But here on The Cage?
I get hit with โNice profile,โ and I can tell within minutes which way itโs going (usually nowhere).
A woman can walk into any room and say โYou wanna fuck?โโand thereโll be a dozen men lined up.
A guy? Heโs gotta hustle. Charm. Prove it. Bleed for it.
But maybe the truth isโฆ weโve all gotten too scared. Too guarded. Too damn tired.
So hereโs my take:
Ladies: be a little more open. Trust that some of us arenโt assholesโweโre just lonely, like you.
Men: put on your big-boy pants. Read a profile. Make a move. Say something real.
Because this site?
It isnโt just about sex.
Itโs about connection.
Interaction.
The dance.
And right now?
Everyoneโs sitting in the corner staring at their phone hoping someone else will start the music.
Maybe weโre all looking for something realโa soulmate, a life partner, a deep connection.
But until we find itโฆ
Why not have some fun?
Why be so damn picky?
Maybe itโs my biker mentality, but Iโve done just about everythingโmultiple times, with multiple womenโand I donโt regret a single thing.
I know there are women here whoโve lived just as boldly. And to them I say:
Why the fuck not?
Lifeโs too short.
Ask yourself: do you care what your neighbor thinks?
I donโt.
For all you know, the guy next door is in there banging six chicksโor tied up like Sunday roast. Orย spinning from the proverbial chandelier Who knows? Who cares?
The real question is:
Do you enjoy sex?
If yes, then why arenโt you having more of itโas often as possible, with whoever sparks your fire?
This site is perfect for tryouts, fantasies, kinks, and maybe even finding the real thing.
But if youโre not reaching out? Not playing? Not even trying?
Then what the fuck are you doing here?
๐งจ Hustle More. Lurk Less.
I know a Dom. Solid guy. Been here for yearsโand hasnโt gotten one call. Not one. Thatโs nuts. Heโs a manโs man. But still? Crickets.
Though yeah, he should be putting the work in too. Both sides need to.
I think a lot of guys are afraidโwe get shut down and sulk like little boys, taking our bat and ball home.
Come on, ladies. Give us a break.
And maybe the problem is the fear. The overthinking. This idea that weโve all got to be some polished Dominant with a picture-perfect script.
Bullshit.
Sometimes itโs just about letting go and having a good, dirty time.
๐ฌ We Donโt Need a Contract to Sext
This is a big boy, big girl site, right?
Then letโs act like it.
Iโve had wild, hot, raunchy nights with people I never spoke to again. And thatโs OK. Itโs adult. Itโs consensual. Itโs healing.
Sometimes, just being seen, desired, devoured in words is exactly what someone needs that night.
Now donโt twist thisโI respect boundaries. I love rules. Especially when they end in safe words and screaming.
But if youโre too scared to message, flirt, or playโฆ then what the hell are we doing?
Fuck The World, Baby.
Let's burn it down with about 8 people on a giant bed. YeeHa!ย
Clubhouse it was called, umm Tuesday, Maybe Thursday, you just never knew what
you came home to. OMG. ๐ชข๐ซฆ๐ ๐ชข๐ซฆ๐
๐พ Bullet says:
This place isnโt meant to be your therapistโs office or your high school reunion.
Itโs meant to be your playground, your confession booth, and your dungeonโall wrapped in leather and lipstick.
๐บ Animal says: I'm lost
Did I ever tell you about the time I accidentally seduced my therapist?
๐พ Bullet:
Nope. And donโt. I already need therapy just from knowing you. Donโt make me picture you shirtless on a couch whispering about your abandonment issues while flexing.
๐บ Animal:
Hey, I was just telling her about a night at the clubhouse. You knowโorgies, spankings, ropes, raunch. And I said, โThey were even swinging from the chandeliers.โ
๐พ Bullet:
Oh God. Please donโt tell me she believed you.
๐บ Animal:
She did. Fell clean out of her chair. Glasses flew. That was the moment everything changed.
๐พ Bullet:
Jesus. You didnโt seduce herโyou wrecked her deductible.
๐บ Animal:
Therapy session ended with me asking if she felt seen and heard. She said yesโฆ then asked for my number, and tripled my sessions each week. Did I care what diagnosis she wrote
I mean it took her a few days tp write that coherent report, but damnย
it must have been good as they kept paying for my deductible. ๐คฏ
๐บ Animal says:
And thatโs why I got FTW inked in my bicep crook. It ainโt just a middle finger to the worldโitโs a reminder to take chances, stir shit up, and chase the raw, the real, and the wrecked.
So yeah, Iโll keep cracking the whip, sending the messages, and making someoneโs night betterโeven if itโs just once. Maybe especially because itโs just once.
๐ค Final Thought
You want a dynamic? A real one? Learn the rules, sure. Learn yourself, like I read in a blog this morning.
But donโt forget to play.
To get dirty.
To take a damn chance.
You might just find yourself on the receiving end of a kiss on the nose,
a kiss on the toes,
a kiss on the lipsโฆ
โฆand one hard-earned kiss on that beautiful, perfect backside
Now a public service announcement from BIG Daddy Animal
And now a word to the Bad Actors:
If I find out youโve hurt someoneโemotionally, mentally, physicallyโand I can track you down (and I will, Iโm a tracker)โฆ Iโll hurt you back.
You donโt know who I am or what Iโve done. But know this:
I adore women. I protect them. And I donโt tolerate predators.
And to any woman stuck in something dangerousโplease, reach out. To a friend, a sister, a stranger. Reach out to me.
Just get the fuck out. No man is worth you being hurt over.
๐ข This public service announcement brought to you by:
Animal
aka Big Daddy Animal
aka That guy who doesnโt play when it comes to respect.
เผ๐เผ ๐๐ธ๐พ๐ผ๐ฎ ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ฆ๐ป๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ด๐ช๐ฐ๐ฎโข เผ๐เผ
Where secrets drip like candlewax and thighs glisten like glass.
๐ Swinging from chandeliers, moaning in moonlight, wrecked by morning.
๐พ Bullet & ๐บ Animal โ You donโt follow us. You survive us.
๐ฏ๏ธยฉ House of Wreckage 2025
PS: This is version 27, thanks to input from Moma. ๐คฏ
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