I have been off of this site for a couple of months, for a number of personal reasons, one of being having to get used to things which suddenly change everything. Not being in control is not a feeling I like, I’m a domme for a reason. I have now accepted this new version of normal and the core of who I am has not changed.
Along the way a sub, whom I had started training, I realised needed to find herself and become more comfortable in her beautiful, bratty, self. We parted ways, mutually respectful and she has gone off to learn who she is independently, without being in a relationship. The concept for her that she was allowed to be who she was, was foreign and she was not used to being accepted. This was sad for me but right for her. I look forward to hearing more of her story.
For now though it is back to playing and so I’ve booked myself in for a shibari workshop, something I have wanted to learn for a long time. The sensuality and control and trust that person has to allow you to tie them up, delicious 🤤