One size doesn’t fit all

I originally completed the BDSM test and I showed as a Switch. I think a lot of that had to do with my career and how I am perceived in the workplace. Through different experiences I found I was less inclined to be dominant in the bedroom and outside of work. It was like I was able to shed that dominant persona I needed to survive my work environment. Don’t get me wrong. There were many miss steps in my journey and even now I am still learning, growing, evolving with the help of my very patient Dominant. You would think the term submissive and confidence or empowering would not mesh well. But my journey has been empowering in the sense of owning my sexuality and desires. My confidence in my femininity and womanhood has blossomed. Unlearning the belief that sexual needs and desires are something to be ashamed of. I feel confident in displaying my body more so than I have ever felt. It is freeing when with my Dom’s guidance I am becoming who I was meant to be.