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I have been writing my thoughts for ages for my eyes only. Speaking with others here I found they blog for
many different reasons. Some similar to mine.
Some I can relate to, others not so much. But underneath it all is the vulnerability in sharing one’s thoughts with a community that they feel deeply connected to. Sharing their journey, their trauma, their fantasies takes courage and I applaud each and every one of them. For me I had been thinking about it and my wonderful dominant nudged me and told me I should. He said that sharing my story may help someone else, who like me struggles with past trauma.
Everyone’s story is different, but underlying there is a thread that binds us together. Take solace in knowing you are not alone and there are others out there that have shared experiences. My blogs, though deeply personal are meant to bring light and hope and to open honest discourse.
1 month ago. Thursday, December 11, 2025 at 6:23 PM

How do you separate what is in your heart, with what is your current reality? Especially, when being so new to the lifestyle non-monogamy, poly and sharing were never in your vocabulary. 
How do you wrap your head around that your relationship with someone is not impacted by their  choice to be with someone else? How is that subject even discussed?
Can anyone give me some insight on this topic?

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