Trust is a fragile thing. Once lost it is difficult to regain.
Trust can be lost in so many ways and not always knowingly. I am beginning to learn that honesty, even when it may hurt the person you care about the most, is always the best policy. Because inevitably being dishonest, even by omission will come back to haunt you.
That being said, I will reiterate, I am here to learn, read blogs and write my truth. I am not here looking for a Dom.
I will always be respectful, but nothing more.
I am learning this type of dynamic cannot function without a deep sense of trust. The submissive trusting their partner with their safety and fully giving themselves over to their dominant and allowing him control. The dominant trusts his submissive to follow his command and communicate any issues that may arise. U have learned that a Dominant relies on your communication to ensure your emotional and physical safety.