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First and foremost hello to anybody that's reading this and thanks for reading. Second, I've always been into the bdsm lifestyle and I want to dive deeper into it. So, yes I'm new and a lot of questions will be asked.

Now that's out of the way. I've read quite a few blogs from some of the members on here ( mostly submissive females because that's the kind of women I like ) and from reading their respective blogs. I can't tell or know what's being said. I'm either too turned on from what they wrote or confused with some of the terms that was used. Now, I know I'm knew and the answers will become clear to me soon. But, I'm just saying from a newbies point of view. It's both intriguing and confusing at the same time. If anyone would like to help explain some of the terminology for me that'll be great.

It's my first blog. I promise the next one will be better. Thanks again for reading.
6 years ago. March 28, 2018 at 7:35 PM

Today was the first day I tried the chat room. As a newbie to the lifestyle. It was awesome. The people in there were funny, friendly and a little kinky too. Which was great. If your new like me. I definitely recommend talking through the chat room. It was fun and we even made fun of a total loser who tried to rain on our fun parade. To those awesome people that was in the chat. I'll be looking forward to chatting it with again and I'll also be sending a add soon too.

Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - It was great to meet you ?
6 years ago
Stulls​(sub female){Collared❤️} - Its was nice to meet you glad you like the chat as much as we do. That person earlier was being a total ass glad you could see how we deal with people like them lol
6 years ago
Rell88bk​(dom male) - He was just being rude and a jerk. A typical nobody really. @ redridinghood
6 years ago
Rell88bk​(dom male) - It was nice meeting you too dd and stulls. Let me know whenever everybody is back in the chat again or if there's more people there.
6 years ago
Redtailedkitty - It was very nice to meet you. I enjoy meeting non-asshats. :D
6 years ago
Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - Red...this person came into the chat immediately disrespectful towards women. He did not behave appropriately in any way shape or form. We tried to give him a chance to explain himself, thinking maybe we misheard him or misread what he was saying, but instead of clarifying, he continued to be an ass and called me a cunt on top of it.

I don’t approve of people being ganged up on in chat for being new, or asking questions or even if they came in saying “OMG 50 SHADES IS MY BDSM BIBLE”!!!
This was most certainly not that type of circumstance.
6 years ago
Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - Yes well the way he said it was an insult. I’ll accept cunt as a term of endearment only from certain people.

Bottom line is he was a twat (not a term of endearment), and I don’t give a flying fuck if he comes back to chat or not.
6 years ago
Rell88bk​(dom male) - Lol twats are also good too
6 years ago
ShellyBean​(sub female) - Glad you enjoyed it Rell. It was a pleasure meeting you. There are many nice individuals here at the cage. Hope to you in there again for a giggle. As far as the person calling women weak and cunts. He was said hello to. I always "try" to say hello and ask how they are. After saying hello to him he proceeded to call women weak and cunts. No one was rude to him as to provoke this type of behavior. I don't like bullying, so I definitely wouldn't have sat back and not said anything had he been. If anyone was doing any sort of bullying it was this individual. The ladies at first tried to understand why he felt that way, but he continued with spewing off from the mouth, called dd, or me, who knows, a cunt then ran for the hills. Red I'm truly sorry you had a negative experience with chat. It's not always rainbows and sprinkles, but a good majority of the time it's quite friendly and welcoming. Xxxxx
6 years ago
Hisproclivity​(sub female) - Shelly well said!! I wanted to interject that admin 7/10 times normally removes said filth from chat. Bullying is an extremely overused term in today's society. It's sick that we defend the filth and accuse the victims of instigation! Before you retort and defend the fake please note some of these women could have been victims their entire lives. "Cunt" could trigger someone or the obscenities thrown at them by the fake could break them. I know the fake also has feelings/triggers but he should have approached in a different manner. The Cage staff has magazines on the front page discussing how to act on this site... He failed.
6 years ago
Villanelle​(staff) - It's lovely to see someone enthusiastic about our chat area! I'm sorry to hear there have been some issues as well. Just a reminder that you don't have to tolerate name calling, harassment or abuse here at THE CAGE. Use the "REPORT" button on the user's profile and include as much information as possible. Screenshots and chat logs are particularly helpful. This is the best and most effective way for us to deal with it. In the meantime, the "IGNORE" button is also on profiles. Don't hesitate to use it and don't award bad behaviour with your attention.
6 years ago
Rell88bk​(dom male) - If I paid any attention to him. I would of made sure to that. I will definitely remember this and do it next time somebody acts that way.
6 years ago

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