My days

Yet I’m still trying to get a grasp on the site. Besides a couple of connections and the blog, I feel out of place here. I like to talk with people, and I do here but it has been somewhat difficult to connect. I’m not into D/s right now and I’ve noticed this is the forte of the site. Listing myself as Vanilla has kept the “sub collectors” at bay. I was given tasks and Doms started to vet me since day 1. Nope, not for me  not into dynamics and definitely not a sub. I’ve learned things and basic principles of BDSM enough to spot a fake, inexperienced Dom at a distance and with surgical precision. Here is no different than any other site in that sense: the Napoleons Doms, self proclaimed and mostly clueless. "Trust before obedience”, “Submission is earned” , so basic yet so overridden or ignored by the pseudo Doms!  They take, demand, command, discipline and punish. The sub needs, wants and expectations? “Who cares? I’m the God, Master, Disciplinarian that by self claimed right deserve blind obedience, my needs satisfied and complete control” Geez!! Here’s full of them, no room for kinks and fetishes, so I just write. It’s free and fulfills one of my needs.