I have been asked often about “How does this online dynamic work”. I explained it to someone the other day and I feel that I did not fully give it.
Before I start, I want to acknowledge ErosRising four pillars post. He was spot on with his explanation. Also this is what “I” look for in an online dynamic.
I will piggyback off the explanation a little bit. Is pillars begin as follows, Trust, Honesty, Communication and Respect.
Since it is online only I will need to shift the order a bit. Communication is first and foremost, Honesty and Trust are interlock and respect.
The conversation if it is welcomed is setting the foundation. You will know if the person is agreeable by several factors. The questions, the ease of the conversation and importantly the time.
During this period. No agreement has been made. I feel if things move fast it will burn out just as fast.
Honesty and Trust must be given both ways. If I feel that you are lying. I will end it. Why? If you want things to go further and normally that is what is wanted. How would it work if I can not trust that what is said and done is between us.
Respect will always be given and in return I expect it back.
(If you are expecting me to go into detail of the sexual dynamic. Sorry I will not.) Hopefully this gives you the answer to the online dynamic and what I mean by it.