As i woke up this morning, my eyes barely open to the wonder of today, I realized something. I DO NOT do sexy very well....if at all. In fact, when i try to DO sexy, i can only picture something like a chimpanzee in a tutu dancing off beat and badly to rap music while singing a lullaby. Good times ?
***I can hear certain people in my life already lecturing or kindly pointing out "you are better than this." "I'll not participate in you tearing yourself down" Trust me...keep reading ?***
Now that the chimpanzee is dancing around in your head, let me explain. I do not DO sexy very well. It is awkward and i just don't seem to get it. But the reason is because sexy isn't something that you DO. It is who you are. It is a frame of mind. It is believing what your partner says about you being sexy and embracing it. It is an attitude!
I am not in any way tearing myself down.
The very best sexy a person can be is to be authentic and to be themselves. Be authentic. Be you!
