No, i am not talking about restricting breath with a cloud of glitter! 💖
Yes there is more to Sparkles than you know! I am learning with each adventure to the local BDSM club more things that i enjoy. I have had small experiences with minor breath play, nothing really major. And yes, i quite enjoyed it. Perhaps I will share more about my journey in the local scene sometime soon. However, that is where the BDSM part of my blog stops today. Or does it?
This evening as Sir and I were video chatting, we had our own adventures with breath play. (Yes, he knows I am writing this blog) Folks, do not try this at home 😉😎 We were laughing so hard we couldn't breathe! 🤣🤣🤣 It was too funny. And just when we thought we regained composure and tried to resume the conversation, one of us would lose ourselves in laughter once more. His microphone stopped working 🔇and the skype chat option was delaying like a bad dial up internet connection. ☎️💻 (yes i realize some people may not even know what that means...dial up...lol) He began what i could only call the craziest game of charades i have ever experienced in my life! We certainly can't forget his Italian hands 🇮🇹✋🤘👋 that like to carry on a conversation all by themselves, wild gestures and movements. 😉 And then he started writing things on a piece of paper "yes, no, behave, Good girl, etc." (Even as i write this and relive the moments, I am laughing hysterically) We all know that once you start that downhill slide into the land of hysterical laughing, tears usually flow, you can't breathe and you feel like you just might die. Are you with me? Ah yes, you have experienced this too! Mass high fives to all of you!
We all have our limits though. He called🛑 because he couldn't breathe! This of course made me laugh even harder! I couldn't help it. I do respect our safety words though, they are in place for a reason. So we tried to reroute the conversation, but in almost no time we started laughing even harder. RED was called once again. Twice in one video chat session. TWICE. This never should have happened 😉 Never be afraid to use your safe words folks!
*I am in no way making light of real situations that safe words are used.*
Laughing is so important. We can't run around being super serious all the time! Well, at least I can't. Laughter was EXACTLY what was needed for us this evening. He needed a good laugh after a series of stressful days. We flowed in the direction we needed to. There will be plenty of time for all the other lovely stuff in the days to come. Laughter helped us bond together. Laughter made us stronger. Laughter was a huge release. Laughter allows freedom in ways you could only imagine. When was the last time you laughed so hard you thought you were going to die? Or at least so hard that your stomach hurt and you were crying tears of laughter? Or laughed so hard you couldn't breathe? I hope you have had that luxury recently. It is glorious.
